Things your Marriage Councelor Won't Tell You...

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14 Things Your Marriage Counselor Won’t Tel l You:

14 Things Your Marriage Counselor Won’t Tel l You

I love couple who fight in the waiting room. At least they still care about each other. If one or both of you seem indifferent , my job is a lot harder:

I love couple who fight in the waiting room. At least they still care about each other. If one or both of you seem indifferent , my job is a lot harder

When you say your feelings “just aren’t there anymore”, I know you’re probably cheating.:

When you say your feelings “just aren’t there anymore”, I know you’re probably cheating.

Sometimes I’ll tell a couple “no sex until next session.Don’t touch each other,period”. What I ‘m hoping is that they’ll fail and feel a sense of unity from their mutual rebellion.:

Sometimes I’ll tell a couple “no sex until next session.Don’t touch each other,period ”. What I ‘m hoping is that they’ll fail and feel a sense of unity from their mutual rebellion.

It may make you feel better to talk about your marriage issues with a good friend, but it will just make things worse. Never talk to outsiders about your marriage that you haven’t already talked about with your spouse.:

It may make you feel better to talk about your marriage issues with a good friend, but it will just make things worse. Never talk to outsiders about your marriage that you haven’t already talked about with your spouse .

I’m not going to tell a couple that I have no idea why they’re together. But take the hint if I say something like “You both have to make a decision about whether this is going to work long term.”:

I’m not going to tell a couple that I have no idea why they’re together. But take the hint if I say something like “You both have to make a decision about whether this is going to work long term.”

What do I wish I could say? “Grow up !” “Stop whining !” “Get a life !” When I feel this way, I know I need a vacation.:

What do I wish I could say? “Grow up !” “Stop whining !” “Get a life !” When I feel this way, I know I need a vacation .

Don’t try to convince me you’re the good one. In most marriage,there isn’t a good one.:

Don’t try to convince me you’re the good one. In most marriage,there isn’t a good one.

Yes, you should go to bed angry. If you try to resolve everything before you hit the sack, you’ll both be sleep-deprived and cranky the next day. Instead, get a good night’s sleep and talk once you’re rested.:

Yes, you should go to bed angry. If you try to resolve everything before you hit the sack, you’ll both be sleep-deprived and cranky the next day. Instead, get a good night’s sleep and talk once you’re rested.

Three signs that a couple is not going to succeed: 1. name-calling 2. finger-pointing 3. when one or both partners fail to accept even the tiniest bit of responsibility for the situation.:

Three signs that a couple is not going to succeed: 1. name-calling 2. finger-pointing 3. when one or both partners fail to accept even the tiniest bit of responsibility for the situation .

Sometimes two people love each other but have such different styles of living that I recommend they live together in a duplex. It sounds strange, but it works for some people.:

Sometimes two people love each other but have such different styles of living that I recommend they live together in a duplex. It sounds strange, but it works for some people.

I’ve seen couples I thought didn’t stand a chance end up staying together. Often it’s because they’re both willing to try. But sometimes it’s just that they are too dysfunctional to leave each other.:

I’ve seen couples I thought didn’t stand a chance end up staying together. Often it’s because they’re both willing to try. But sometimes it’s just that they are too dysfunctional to leave each other.

The big thing most women don’t understand: Men are not mind readers. If you don’t tell him how you feel, he’s not going to know. :

The big thing most women don’t understand: Men are not mind readers. If you don’t tell him how you feel, he’s not going to know.

The big things most men don’t understand: If you hardly acknowledge your wife all day, she’s not going to want to get intimate with you at night:

The big things most men don’t understand: If you hardly acknowledge your wife all day, she’s not going to want to get intimate with you at night

If you ask how long you’ve had problems and your answer in “ten years”, you’re not going to change things in ten minutes or ten sessions.:

If you ask how long you’ve had problems and your answer in “ten years”, you’re not going to change things in ten minutes or ten sessions.