Third Parties Affect our Marriages

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Third Parties Affect Our Marriages :

Third Parties Affect Our Marriages Lots of marriages have been destroyed by the couples allowing Third Parties to influence their marriages. Third Parties must not be allowed to play any pivotal roles in your marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 1

Who is a Third Party:

Who is a Third Party This is a person or persons who is/are not a party to a contract or transaction but has/have but an involvement. The third party normally has no legal rights in the matter,  unless the  contract  was made for the third party's benefit.   Thursday, November 27, 2014 2

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Many marriages have been destroyed by the interference of the Third Parties in the same. They pose as good people who want to better your marriage but at the end of it they will destroy your marriage. We should not give room to them. Thursday, November 27, 2014 3

THIRD PARTIES IN OUR MARRIAGES :

THIRD PARTIES IN OUR MARRIAGES   Children Parents Siblings( brothers and sisters) Relatives Friends Colleagues ( workmates/ business associates, etc ) Acquaintances Thursday, November 27, 2014 4

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Doctors Lawyers Neighbours Shopkeepers Employers Pastors Driving School instructors Micro finance institutions and banks Women /Men Groups , etc Thursday, November 27, 2014 5

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What does it mean to have a third party in your marriage? It simply means you allow external people to interfere in your marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 6

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E.g. as a woman you always run to your parent to tell them what your husband does wrong or as a man, you allow your family members to dictate to you what should be and not be in your home thereby making your wife irrelevant when it comes to decision making. Thursday, November 27, 2014 7

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Most marriages today do not work not because the husband and wife aren't meant for each other but because third parties are being allowed in the marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 8

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Marriage is a union between a man and his wife and not a man, his wife and the entire extended family or friends. Of course these people are necessary in ones life but they should have their limits when it comes to family matter in order for peace to reign in that marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 9

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Lots of marriages have broken up because one of the spouse gave in the advice gotten from an outsider. Thursday, November 27, 2014 10

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The couple normally set high expectations when they are entering into marriage believing that they would have a wonderful marriage since the love they had for each other is so strong. Thursday, November 27, 2014 11

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But like all marriages, they would start having little misunderstandings, the husband begins to see the things he never knew the wife had in her and the wife also starts seeing things she did not bargain for in her marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 12

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As young couples they can’t take it and normally they would decided start talking to people about their problems . Thursday, November 27, 2014 13

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Both get different types of advice from different people that does not help them. Some people go as far as teaching the man to beat his wife and stay out late as a way of punishing her for not cooking his meal on  time. Thursday, November 27, 2014 14

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No one should be allowed to interfere in your marriage. When you start thinking you have someone else to talk to if your wife does not want to talk, things will get worse till communication gap widens. When there is no communication, things go from worse to worst. Thursday, November 27, 2014 15

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The people you go to meet might not be having a good marriage so what do you expect to get from such places? I believe in couples sitting down to settle their differences instead of having others do it for them. Thursday, November 27, 2014 16

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The bond between a man and a woman who stand in front of God with their hearts open to His guidance and involvement is very strong. God is interested in that union. Thursday, November 27, 2014 17

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This union should be full of assurance that their promise is a lifelong union in order to enjoy this union these qualities in their life are a must: Thursday, November 27, 2014 18

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Unshakeable Trust Calmness Respect Reliability Devotion Integrity Honesty Faith Love Hope Thursday, November 27, 2014 19

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Dignity Stability Joy Peace Friendship Standing on a Strong foundation Thursday, November 27, 2014 20

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To all the Husbands and wives; My encouragement to you is this: F ollow Christ’s example; Be absolutely, unshakably committed to your spouse, in good times and bad. Thursday, November 27, 2014 21

Effects of Allowing Third Parties in Marriages :

Effects of A llowing Third Parties in Marriages 1) It doesn't allow for closeness between husband and wife 2) It diminishes love between a man and his wife 3) It reduces your value as a man. You will be assumed that you are a man who can't bring orderliness in his home. Thursday, November 27, 2014 22

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4) It doesn't give room for privacy. People get to know what goes on in your home 5) It widens the communication gap in the home 6) You will really have low esteem as you will not be able to make any independent decisions on your own. Thursday, November 27, 2014 23

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8) It results in lots of confusion 7) People will write you off as being an irresponsible man. 9.) Your marriage will be the talk of the village/estate where you are. Thursday, November 27, 2014 24

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The above and lots more are the after effect of allowing third parties into your home. Note that it is better not to start it at all but if you have, stop it before it's too late because it will get to a stage when it will be very difficult to stop it without causing great trouble for yourself. Thursday, November 27, 2014 25

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There might be times when you might need someone to talk to, the best person to talk to is a marriage counselor. There are lots of them out there. T hey are in a better position to help. Thursday, November 27, 2014 26

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My wife and I have been happily married for 37 YEARS. We attribute this to the Lord’s goodness as well as to our having learned and practiced Biblical Principles of Marriage. Thursday, November 27, 2014 27

Finally:

Finally Keep off Third Parties in your marriages as they will bring disasters in the marriage institution. Thursday, November 27, 2014 28

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