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The Vital Role of Fathering :

The Vital Role of Fathering Josh McDowell

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“If ever you have felt strategic, you will when I finish.”

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34 Years

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Solomon Dottie

The Vital Role of Fathering :

The Vital Role of Fathering

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“I’m a more tender, loving father.”

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For I am always aware of your unfailing love, and I have lived according to your truth. Psalm 26:3 (NLT)

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If any faith is based upon truth, it is a Christian faith.

And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. John 8:32 (NLT) :

And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free. John 8:32 (NLT)

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When we let truth slip, we’ve been gutted.

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Born Again A Teenager in an evangelical church who would say, “I have personally trusted Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord and if I were to die today, I know I’d go to Heaven because He is my Savior and He has forgiven me my sins.”

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Absolute or Universal Truth: That which is true for all people, in all places, at all times

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1999 – 78% 1994 – 62% 1991 – 52%

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2006?

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who do not believe MORE

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who do not believe 300% USE ILLEGAL DRUGS more likely to

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who do not believe more likely to COMMIT SUICIDE

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36% LIE TO A FRIEND

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who do not believe more likely to CHEAT on an exam

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225% Teens who do not believe Angry with life in Absolute Truth are: more likely to be

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who don't believe Resentful 216% more likely to be

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DISAPPOINTED in life more likely to be 200%

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Teens who do not believe in Absolute Truth are Physically Hurt Someone 200% more likely to

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Teens who do not believe 200% in Absolute Truth are: Pornographic film more likely to watch a

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in Absolute Truth are Teens who do not believe 210% Lack Purpose more likely to

Of all Teenagers in America :

Of all Teenagers in America Born Again & Non-Born Again 6% Believe there is Truth apart from themselves Non Born Again 4% Believe there is Truth apart from themselves Born Again 9% Believe there is Truth apart from themselves

1995 :

1995 Of all born again church young people confronted with the statement: “The Bible is the infallible Word of God and true in every situation” 10% Agreed with that statement

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2006? 4%

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2011 <1%

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Behavior What Drives a Young Person’s Behavior?

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Behavior Values What Forms Our Values?

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Behavior Values What Engenders Our Beliefs? Beliefs

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Behavior Values Beliefs Relationships

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For I am always aware of your unfailing love, and I have lived according to your truth. Psalm 26:3 (NLT)

Teach me your ways, O Lord,that I may live according to your truth! :

Teach me your ways, O Lord,that I may live according to your truth! Psalm 86:11(NLT)

for your love for me is very great. :

for your love for me is very great. Psalm 86:13 (NLT)

So the Word became human and made his home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. :

So the Word became human and made his home among us. He was full of unfailing love and faithfulness. John 1:14(NLT)

For the law was given through Moses, but God’s unfailing love and faithfulness came through Jesus Christ. :

For the law was given through Moses, but God’s unfailing love and faithfulness came through Jesus Christ. John 1:17(NLT)

Unfailing love and truth have met together. :

Unfailing love and truth have met together. Psalm 85:10(NLT)

If a child does not see that unfailing love and truth coming together in daddy, it’s going to be hard for that child to ever believe truth. :

If a child does not see that unfailing love and truth coming together in daddy, it’s going to be hard for that child to ever believe truth.

Paul teaches in Ephesians 4 –Teach the Truth … :

Paul teaches in Ephesians 4 –Teach the Truth … In Love!

You can be the greatest explainer of truth You can be the greatest preacher of truthYou can be the greatest illustrator of truth … :

You can be the greatest explainer of truth You can be the greatest preacher of truthYou can be the greatest illustrator of truth …

If in the very heart of your son or daughter does not believe “my daddy loves me,” they’ll walk away from your truth :

If in the very heart of your son or daughter does not believe “my daddy loves me,” they’ll walk away from your truth

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Truth without relationships leads to rejection

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Rules without relationships leads to rebellion

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Kids respond to truth in a context of a loving intimate relationship

Dartmouth Medical SchoolStudy of 257 Scientific Studies of Young People :

Dartmouth Medical SchoolStudy of 257 Scientific Studies of Young People

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Authoritative Community Any group of young people with any adult who has responsibility to them.

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All Scientific Research shows that from the moment a baby is born, that baby’s brain is formed physically and biologically to connect in relationships

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Not Emotionally Not Spiritually Physically

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To impart one’s values or truth to an individual, one must…

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Develop loving, intimate connection/ relationship with the child

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Model the very truth/value you want to see ingrained in the child.

I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. :

I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. John 13:15 (NLT)

Dear brothers and sisters, pattern your lives after mine, and learn from those who follow our example. :

Dear brothers and sisters, pattern your lives after mine, and learn from those who follow our example. Philippians 3:17 (NLT)

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For I am always aware of your unfailing love, and I have lived according to your truth. Psalm 26:3 (NLT)

Columbia University StudyDone after Columbine :

Columbia University StudyDone after Columbine

How does Family structure affect a child’s involvement in drugs and alcohol and how it can be extrapolated to violence :

How does Family structure affect a child’s involvement in drugs and alcohol and how it can be extrapolated to violence Single Parent family headed by a MothervsTwo Parent biological family headed by the Father and Mother

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Single Parent family headed by a Mother 30% more likely to engage in dugs, alcohol and violence

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Single Parent family headed by a Mother Two Parent biological family headed by the Father and Mother where there is a fair to poor relationship with the father 30% more likely to engage in dugs, alcohol and violence 68% more likely to engage in dugs, alcohol and violence

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Two Parent biological family headed by the Father and Mother where there is a good to excellent relationship with the father 94% less likely to engage in dugs, alcohol and violence

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The relationship within the structure is as powerful as the structure

FBI StudyDone after Columbine to determine if they could develop a profile to detect potential shooters :

FBI StudyDone after Columbine to determine if they could develop a profile to detect potential shooters

FBI Study Results :

FBI Study Results 1)They were all white2)They are middle class3)The Father is either missing or distant in the parenting process

Johns Hopkins Medical SchoolStudy :

Johns Hopkins Medical SchoolStudy

Predictive FactorsIf this is true they will have a greater potential for five things :

Predictive FactorsIf this is true they will have a greater potential for five things

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Mental Illness

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Mental IllnessHypertension

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Mental IllnessHypertensionMalignant Tumor

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Mental IllnessHypertensionMalignant TumorCoronary Heart Disease

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Mental IllnessHypertensionMalignant TumorCoronary Heart DiseaseSuicide

Most Significant Predictor The lack of closeness to one’s parents :

Most Significant Predictor The lack of closeness to one’s parents

Stress :

Stress

A child raised in a very loving intimate environment as they grow up can handle stress so much better in their life :

A child raised in a very loving intimate environment as they grow up can handle stress so much better in their life

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Young Person that does not have a loving intimate relationship with their father 12 – 14 year old 300% more likely to commit suicide

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Young Person that does not have a loving intimate relationship with their father 12 – 14 year old 300% more likely to attempt suicide 15 – 16 year old 400% more likely to attempt suicide

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Behavior Values Beliefs Relationships

The Vital Role of Fathering :

The Vital Role of Fathering

The Most Powerful Platform to Influence Kids in Every Culture :

The Most Powerful Platform to Influence Kids in Every Culture Actor/Actress Great Athlete Rock Star Politician

The Most Powerful Platform to Influence Kids in Every Culture :

The Most Powerful Platform to Influence Kids in Every Culture Daddy

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Dear Josh, When I heard you speak, you talked about God loving me. You said that Jesus Christ is a friend of teenagers like me. It’s hard to believe that! When no one else cares about me, I want to love others but don’t know how. Why?

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Behavior Values Beliefs Relationships

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Intimacy A capacity to be real with another person

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Mr. McDowell, would you give me a hug? The #1 question Josh McDowell gets from young men all over the world

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My father never once hugged me or told me he loved me!

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What is your greatest accomplishment in life? My children still come home!

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I’ve never known a day in my entire life that my father didn’t love me unconditionally – not that I didn’t give him the opportunity!

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Do you know what that did for me? It gave me the freedom to fail!

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You are not truly, emotionally free to fail until you know someone, especially your daddy or mommy loves you unconditionally no matter what you do.

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We owe it to our children that they so observe that unfailing love that they are set free to fail and know they are still loved

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Three questions I always asked my children Do you know that I love you? Do you know that I love your mother? Do you want with your wife and children what I have with your mother and you?

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Relationships

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Teaching them the truth in the context of Love

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There is no guarantee in parenting

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Every Child has a Free Will

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If Hugh Hefner had seen that unfailing love in his father, there never ever would have been Playboy

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If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 1 Corinthians 13:1

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For I am always aware of your unfailing love, and I have lived according to your truth. Psalm 26:3 (NLT)

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The President would like to know what you think is the greatest problem facing America?

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The Daddy

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Mothers are taken for granted! Why?

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Mothers are taken for granted! Because they will be there for you, listen to you, hurt with you, cry with you, and pray with you!

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Who is not taken for granted? Daddy!

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Daddy! Will he even be there, will he even listen to me or is his cell phone on all the time, will he cry with me, will my daddy even pray with me?

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Daddy! When a daddy does do that the impact is totally out of proportion!

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Men You are one of the most powerful forces in the world.

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Loving my wife and spending time with my children is my greatest contribution!

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God never calls us to do anything if He does not resource us

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If the church is going to make it, it will be because husbands and fathers begin to dedicate themselves to their families

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Problems are big if you have a small god Problems are small if you have a big God

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If we do not turn the leadership – starting with the youth pastors and pastors around this country - then I am not encouraged. But I believe we can!

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The biggest problem in the nation is renegade males – men not doing their jobs Derek Prince

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Renegade Males For the last 80 – 100 years of the family, generation after generation we have had less and less of a model