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ALLOW YOUR OWN INNER LIGHT TO GUIDE YOU : 

There comes a time when you must stand alone.You must feel confident enough within yourself to follow your own dreams.You must be willing to make sacrifices.You must be capable of changing and rearranging your priorities so that your final goal can be achieved.Sometimes, familiarity and comfort need to be challenged.There are times when you must take a few extra chances and create your own realities.Be strong enough to at least try to make your life better.Be confident enough that you won't settle for a compromise just to get by.Appreciate yourself by allowing yourself the opportunities to grow, develop, and find your true sense of purpose in this life.Don't stand in someone else's shadow when it's your sunlight that should lead the way. ALLOW YOUR OWN INNER LIGHT TO GUIDE YOU

INSPIRATIONAL POSITIVE THOUGHTS : 

Work hard at what you like to do and try to overcome all obstaclesLaugh at your mistakes and praise yourself for learning from themPick some flowers and appreciate the beauty of natureSay hello to strangers and enjoy the people you knowDon't be afraid to show your emotions laughing and crying make you feel betterLove your friends and family with your entire being they are the most important part of your lifeFeel the calmness on a quiet sunny dayFind a rainbow and live your world of dreams always remember life is better than it seems INSPIRATIONAL POSITIVE THOUGHTS

BE THANKFUL : 

Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to? Be thankful when you don't know something, for it gives you the opportunity to learn. Be thankful for the difficult times. During those times you grow. Be thankful for your limitations, because they give you opportunities for improvement. Be thankful for your mistakes. They will teach you valuable lessons. Be thankful when you're tired and weary, because it means you've made a difference. It's easy to be thankful for the good things. A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks. Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings BE THANKFUL

APPRECIATING OUR PAST : 

It is easy to be negative about past mistakes and unhappiness. But it is much more healing to look at ourselves and our past in the light of experience, acceptance, and growth.Our past is a series of lessons that advance us to higher levels of living and loving. The relationships we entered, stayed in, or ended taught us necessary lessons. Some of us have emerged from the most painful circumstances with strong insights about who we are and what we want. Our mistakes? Necessary. Our frustrations, failures, and sometimes stumbling attempts at growth and progress? Necessary too. Each step of the way, we learned. We went through exactly the experiences we need to, to become who we are today. Each step of the way, we progressed. Is our past a mistake? No. The only mistake we can make is mistaking that for the truth. Today, God, help me let go of negative thoughts I may be harboring about my past circumstances or relationships. I can accept, with gratitude, all that has brought me to today. APPRECIATING OUR PAST

A LESSON IN LIFE : 

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere.  If someone hurts you, betrays you , or breaks you heart, forgive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them. Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you either. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it. A LESSON IN LIFE

IRRATIONAL THINKING OF LIFE : 

A lot of us suffer from irrational thinking which can affect our lives in a dramatic way. It can seperate the successful people in life from the unsuccessful ones, it can mean the difference between loving someone and hating someone, it can be the difference between peace and war. All wars, Yes I mean ALL, are caused by irrational thinking. In this post I will look at seven common irrational thoughts and hopefully if you suffer from irrational thinking it will help you to change. IRRATIONAL THINKING OF LIFE

1. If someone criticises me there must be something wrong with me : 

There are many reasons why people criticise each other but it does not mean there is something wrong with you if they do criticise you.  It means they have a differing opinion to you which is fantastic as without differing opinions in the world it would be a terrible place to live. 1. If someone criticises me there must be something wrong with me

2. I must always seek approval in order to feel good about myself : 

Many people have thought this at one time or another in their lives, however it becomes damaging when it is an entrenched belief.  There is no way you can please everybody all the time so there is no point in even trying.  Seek approval from yourself and if you’re happy and feel good that’s all that matters.  Yes it’s nice to have other people’s opinions but don’t go out of the way to please other people. 2. I must always seek approval in order to feel good about myself

3. I won’t try anything new unless I know I will be good at it : 

Many people suffer from these types of thoughts.  Trying new things in your life is a way for you to grow and learn more about yourself.  You don’t have to be good at everything in your life but it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy new experiences even if you are not good at them. 3. I won’t try anything new unless I know I will be good at it

4. It’s not my fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted : 

have news for you; it is your fault.  This doesn’t make you bad and it doesn’t mean you are a failure.  You have control over your thoughts and therefore your actions.  You thoughts and actions will determine your life.  If you constantly blame others for the way your life has turned out you have given all your power away to other people.  Take the control back and take responsibility for your thoughts and actions. 4. It’s not my fault my life didn’t go the way I wanted

5. I am inferior to everyone else : 

That’s just the way you feel, which doesn’t make it true.  You have qualities that nobody else can touch and other people have qualities that you can’t touch.  Recognising your strengths will build your self confidence recognising others strengths will build their self confidence but don’t put yourself down when recognising that somebody else is better than you at something. 5. I am inferior to everyone else

6. I was rejected which means there is something wrong with me : 

This is over generalising like the person who was rejected in a relationship, they think it always happens to them and they must somehow be unworthy of love.  People reject others due to differing ideals, just like you do, but it doesn’t mean you are in any way unworthy it just means your ideals don’t match someone else’s ideals. 6. I was rejected which means there is something wrong with me

7. If I feel happy about life something will go wrong : 

Another common irrational thought.  You deserve all the happiness you make for yourself; your past is your past, if there are still issues lurking from your past that is blocking you to feel happy about today speak to someone about it.  Do not tinge your present and future thoughts with bad memories or else your present and future thoughts will get infected and your life will always stay the same. 7. If I feel happy about life something will go wrong

How to stop your irrational thoughts : 

Simple! Just catch yourself every time you have an irrational thought or self defeating thought and replace the wording of your internal thought How to stop your irrational thoughts