Who will Cry When You Die (Team 5)2

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Who Will Cry When You Die? by Robin S Sharma Alexander M , Narsing Rao A and Gopi Krishna P

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About the Author Robin Sharma is one of the world's leading experts on leadership and personal development He was voted #2 globally His books have been published in over 50 countries and in 70 languages Globally celebrated author of 10 bestselling books on leadership and personal development A keen observer of life and business, Sharma frames his wisdom in a friendly, accessible way that will appeal to readers at every level of their careers

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About the Book “ Who will cry when you die “ sets about making us think hard as to how to manifest the fullness of our talents. The title suggests that we should live such a life that the world cries when we die ! Who wouldn't ask for that ? The author gives simple solutions to what we think are complex problems . He offers 101 simple solutions to life’s most complex problems, ranging from a little-known method for beating stress and worry, to a powerful way to enjoy the journey while you create a legacy that lasts . One point which we might like very much in this book is Whenever we give away money, if we bless it and give, it comes back to us many fold !This only proves the timeless truth that the hand that gives is the hand that gathers. To bless the money every time we give cash or cheque – does sound odd and funny, but even once you are proved right, you start practicing it – who does not want money to come back, multiplied?

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Contents See Your Day as your Life Discover your Calling Remember that Awareness Precedes Changes Remember That Recreation Must involve Re-Creation Maintain Your perspective Keep Your Cool Have A Family Mealtime Keep a Journal Get Good at Asking Stop Thinking Tiny Thoughts Develop An Honesty Philosophy Develop Your Talents Don’t Worry About Things You Can’t Change List Your Problems Practice Forgiveness Learn How to Walk Bless your Money Find Three Great Friends Collect Quotes That Inspire You Don’t Pick up the Phone every Time it Rings Get Serious About Setting Goals Love Your Work Be Humble Live Fully so You Can Die Happy Gopi Krishna P Alexander M Narsing Rao A

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See Your Day as your Life “The days come and go like muffled and veiled figures sent from a distant, friendly party, but they say nothing, and if we do not use the gifts they bring ,they carry them as silently away” –Emerson A great life is nothing more than a series of great, well-lived days strung together like as beautiful necklace of pearls Your Life is not a dress rehearsal. Lost opportunities rarely come again Many of us think that it takes months and years to change our life The past is gone, the future is but a figment , so this day is really all you can own

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Remember That Recreation Must involve Re-Creation Recreation is tremendously important to a balanced life. But recreation must serve to re-create you Recreation must restore you and bring you back to life Example: After a tiring day at work, it is so easy to curl up on the couch and spend the next three or four hours watching television. The irony is that , if you are like most people , you actually feel more fatigued after watching too much TV than you felt when you first sat down Effective recreation must involve some pursuit that soothes your soul

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Have A Family Mealtime Family mealtimes are an important part of the socialization process, during which children and adolescents learn to define the ways in which they are going to live Families who regularly gather around the table have more cohesion and more unity." Researchers have found that families who converse over dinner have greater affection for one another The author shared his experience of family mealtime saying that - His dad would often go around the dinner table and ask us to share one new thing we had learned. Or he would pull out a newspaper clipping and engage us in a lively discussion relating to the story The important factor is to sit down together, not to eat a gourmet meal

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Stop Thinking Tiny Thoughts “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult. It's not what you are that’s holding you back. It’s what you think you’re not If you are not pursuing your dreams, you are fueling your limitations The author explains about the medical condition called Amblyopia, a condition that occurs when a patch is placed over a young child’s healthy eye

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Don’t Worry About Things You Can’t Change It makes no sense to worry about things you have no control over because there's nothing you can do about them, and why worry about things you do control? The activity of worrying keeps you immobilized A hundred load of worry will not pay an ounce of debt Worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do, but it gets you nowhere

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Learn How to Walk It is easy to live your life like a leaf in the fall wind, moving in whatever direction the wind blows You must live more intentionally deliberately and passionately so that you live on your own terms rather than on someone else’s Develop your talents; many people spend more time focusing on their weaknesses than developing their strengths

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Collect Quotes That Inspire You A great quote contains a wealth of wisdom in a single line The value of a great quote does lie in the fact that it contains a world of wisdom, wisdom that may have taken the author many years to arrive at , in a line or two Some of the great quotes that might inspire most of us ...

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Love Your Work One of the timeless secrets to a long, happy life is to love your work One thing in common found in history's most satisfied people is that they all loved what they did for living Thomas Edison a man who recorded 1,093 patents in his lifetime ranging from phonograph, bulb, and microphone to movies said “I never did a day’s work in my life : it was all fun” When you love your job, you discover you will never have to work another day in you life. Your work will be play and hours will slip away as quickly as they came

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Live Fully so You Can Die Happy When all the clutter is stripped away from your life, its true meaning will become clear; to live for something more than yourself. The purpose of life is a life of purpose Most people don't discover what life is all about until just before they die. While we are young we spend our days striving and keeping up with social expectations Do not wait until you are on your deathbed to realize the meaning of life and the precious role you have to play within it Life is no brief candle to me. It’s a sort of splendid torch which I’ve got to hold up for the moment and I want to make it burn as brightly as possible before handing it on to future generations

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Discover your Calling When I was growing up, my father said something to me I will never forget, “son, when you were born, you cried while the World rejoiced. Live your Life in such a way that when you die the world cries while you rejoice ” One of the Lessons I have learned in my own life is that if you don’t act on life, life has a habit of acting on you “Be the change you wish to see most in your world.” And once you do, your life will change

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Maintain Your Perspective One day, according to an old story, a man with a serious illness was wheeled into a hospital room

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Maintain Your Perspective There in the hospital he met another man who was resting on a bed next to the window and they became friends

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Maintain Your Perspective His former roommate had conjured up the incredible sights that he described in his imagination to make the world of his friend a little bit better during a difficult time. He had acted out of selfless love

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Keep a Journal Maintaining a daily journal is one of the best personal growth initiatives you will ever take You will develop self-awareness and make fewer mistakes Remember if your life is worth thinking about, it is worth writing about

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Develop An Honesty Philosophy We live in a World of broken promises. We live in a time where people treat their words lightly We promise ourselves, this will be the year we will get back into shape, simplify our lives & have more fun without any real intention of making them happen Saying things we don’t really mean becomes a habit when we practice it long enough When you promise someone you will do something, do it. Be a person of your word rather than being “all talk and no action ”

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List Your Problems “A Problem well stated is a problem half solved.” There is something very special that happens when you take out a piece of paper and list every single one of your problems on it. Author has discovered that while our minds can be our best friends, they can also be our worst enemies. If you keep thinking about your problems, pretty soon you will find, you think about little else.

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Bless your Money The secret of Wealth, he writes the following. “When you send your Money out, remember always to bless it. Ask it to bless everybody that it touches, and command it to go out and feed the hungry and clothe the naked, and command it to come back to you a million fold The hand that gives is the hand that gathers

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Don’t Pick up the Phone every Time it Rings The telephone is there for your convenience, not for the convenience of your callers. Yet as soon as we hear the phone ring, we act as if we are firefighters rushing to a five-alarm fire. we run to pick it up as if our lives depended on the call being answered at once. Often, picking up the ringing phone is just another way to put off doing something you don’t really want to do You no longer need to be interrupted by the ringing phone and can spend your time on life’s more important pursuits

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Be Humble One of the traits I respect most in people is humility. “The tree that has the most fruit is the tree that bends to the ground.” The people who know the most, who have achieved the most and who have lived the most are also the people closest to the ground. In a word, they are humble

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Remember that Awareness Precedes Changes The first step to eliminate a negative habit is to become aware of it You will never be able to eliminate a weakness you don’t even know about. By paying attention to weakness, you attract solutions into your life

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Keep Your Cool “To be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way – That is not easy” – Aristotle With all the stress and pressure in our lives, it is easy to lose our cool at the slightest irritation The problem with losing your temper on a daily basis is that it becomes a habit Don’t be like a Loose Cannon Three Gate Test

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Get Good at Asking He who asks may be a fool for five minutes. He who doesn’t is a fool for a lifetime Every arrow that hits the bull’s eye is the result of one hundred misses “It’s a funny thing about life; if you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it” -Somerset

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Develop Your Talents The Tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live The deepest personal defeat suffered by human beings is constituted by the difference between what one was capable of becoming and what one has in fact become The author shares one of the ancient Indian mythology to remind the audience that there is an abundance of potential and ability just waiting to be awakened within us if we will only allow it to see the light of day Too many people spend more time focusing on their weaknesses rather than developing their strengths

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Practice Forgiveness Letting go of the hostility and hatred that you may have allowed to bottle up inside you is actually something you do for yourself rather than for the benefit of the other person Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that crushed it

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Find Three Great Friends There is nothing in the world more valuable than friendship. Those who banish it from their lives remove as it were the sun from the earth, because of all natures gifts, it is the most beautiful and the most pleasing A Friend in need is a friend indeed

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Get Serious About Setting Goals Goals clarify our desires and, in doing so, help us to focus on only those activities that will lead us to what we want “Goals and plans take the worry out of living”- Glenn Goal setting helps you in Keeps you alert Magnetizes your mind to seek new opportunities Makes things to happen in your life rather than waiting for opportunities to land in your lap

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“when you were born, you cried while the World rejoiced. Live your Life in such a way that when you die the world cries while you rejoice.”