Slide 1:M.L.PANDIA


The Environment :The Environment YOU Beware the Bullets!


Slide 3:- Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity


Slide 4:Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners


Slide 5:Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life “The only person who always likes change is a wet baby”


Slide 7:Media Frenzy A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600%, Look at what you are looking at !!!


Slide 8:GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings)


Life’s Little Question :“Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE?” Life’s Little Question


Choose the Right Luggage :Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof


The Problem With Dodging Bullets :You’re going to get hit! The Problem With Dodging Bullets


Choice #2 :Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor


Bulletproof ArmorComes from :Bulletproof ArmorComes from SELF CHANGE


Putting on the Armor :Putting on the Armor


How to Change Your Attitude :How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT!


So . . . Accept Responsibility :I am responsible . . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do ATTITUDE So . . . Accept Responsibility


Step #2 Take Control :Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE Step #2 Take Control


How to Change Your Thinking :How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation


Observe Your Thinking :Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the …


Manage Your Self-Talk :Manage Your Self-Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT! Henry Ford THINKING


How to Change Your Behavior :How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline


Choose Your Behavior :Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR


Steps Toward Changing Behavior :Steps Toward Changing Behavior 1. Unconscious Incompetence 2. Conscience Incompetence 3. Conscience Competence 4. Unconscious Competence BEHAVIOR The New YOU!


Add POSI+IVE Behavior :Add POSI+IVE Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” Say “please” and “thank you” Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOUR behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR


More POSI+IVE Contributions :More POSI+IVE Contributions 1. Is it true? 2. Is it harmful? 3. Is it necessary? Keep promises Have a forgiving view of people Keep an open mind with changes Count to 1000 if necessary See criticism as opportunity to improve Cultivate your sense of humor Before you say anything to anyone, ask yourself three things


Slide 26:Watch your definitions - they become thoughts Watch your thoughts - they become words Watch your words - they become actions Watch your actions - they become your destiny Remember to . . .


Slide 27:The Choice is YOURS With a Bad attitude you can never have a positive day With a Positive attitude you can never have a bad day


Choose POSI+IVE Living :Choose POSI+IVE Living


Slide 29:HAVE A WONDERFULL & A positive Future E N J O Y !!!!!!!!!! M.L.PANDIA