Do it in person, if possible. :
Do it in person, if possible. Breakups can be traumatic for both parties, but especially for the person being “dumped.” Do everything you can to show them the respect and consideration they deserve. Don’t break-up by email or text!
Don’t Criticize :
Don’t Criticize Be honest, but leave you personal criticism. Talk about the circumstances, and not about personal faults. Avoid blaming.
That said, you can gently criticize if you think it will help them in the future, though be sensitive and cautious – your words may stick in his/her mind for years to come.
Don’t flip/flop :
Don’t flip/flop It’s difficult to hurt someone’s feelings, and in the moment it may seem like it’s a good idea to try again. Don’t do this – you’ll be faced with the same problems in the future, and it’ll only be more difficult to break up at that time.
No contact :
No contact Everyone violates this rule. They insist on trying to forge a friendship out of a recently broken up relationship. It’s a bad idea, and it only makes it harder for both parties. If possible, don’t mention friendship, or speak of it in terms of way down the road. No contact: A simple rule, so follow it!
For break up help: :
For break up help: www.LeavingHer.com (for Men)
www.LeavingHim.com (for Women)