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FOR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN ONLY :

FOR YOUNG MEN AND WOMEN ONLY

The purpose of this books :

The purpose of this books

Where the information in this book comes from Short answer :from the guys themselves:

Where the information in this book comes from Short answer :from the guys themselves

The purpose of this book:

The purpose of this book

Respect vs. Love:

THIS QUESTION WAS ASKED AT A CHURCH CAMP R espect vs. L ove

I’m going to ask you this:

IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE , WOULD YOU RATHER FEEL ALONE AND UNLOVED OR INSUFFICIENT AND DISRESPECTED BY EVERYONE? (CHOOSE ONLY ONE) I’m going to ask you this

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A SEA OF HANDS FROM THE GUYS TEAM WENT UP ONLY FEW WERE DOWN

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Most guys rather feel unloved than disrespected

girls:

IF YOU HAD TO CHOOSE , WOULD YOU RATHER FEEL ALONE AND UNLOVED OR INSUFFICIENT AND DISRESPECTED BY EVERYONE? (CHOOSE ONLY ONE) girls

the girls :

MOST GIRLS RATHER FEEL DISRESPECTED THAN UNLOVED the girls

Take –A- note:

Take –A- note For a guy LOVE = RESPECT What LOVE means to you (girls) for a guy is Respect. What RESPECT means to you (guys) For a girl is LOVE.

Your Love is not enough:

YOU MEAN HE WANTS MY RESPECT MORE THAN MY LOVE? Guys will choose respect over love . Guys need to be respected Unconditionally the same way you want to be love unconditionally Page 27 FYWO Your Love is not enough

Ephesians 5:33 (New International Version, ©2010) :

Ephesians 5:33 (New International Version, ©2010) 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. . Ephesians 5:33

Biblical explanation:

Biblical explanation Ephesians 5:33 However ,each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

take –A-note :

take –A-note God has given you (the girl) the ability to either tear a guy down or build him up

Play scene :

Play scene

here is the link to the fireproof video that wasn't playing on the PowerPoint http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FfumAi0YtE&feature=related :

here is the link to the fireproof video that wasn't playing on the PowerPoint http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FfumAi0YtE&feature=related Got to youtube.com type fireproof part 2 and watch the video

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Notice that what she said he took it as disrespect and a men’s reaction to disrespect is anger. And then she takes anger as you don’t love me and her reaction to not feeling love is to cry. We want to save you head ache like this if you learn to break bad habits now and not when you are married.

Take –A- note :

Take –A- note HIS BRAIN IS ON YOU He is looking to you in the hope to find something respectful about himself, something that will make him feel strong and trustworthy.

proverbios 31:23:

proverbios 31:23 Behind every great man there's a great woman 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. proverbios 31:23 Learn to respect yourself respect yourself

respect yourself :

respect yourself You are his reflection

A guy’s guide to the Alien gender:

A guy’s guide to the Alien gender

For young men only:

This CHAPTER COVERS ABOUT 4 CRAZY TRUTH For young men only

Crazy truth #1:

Unlike guys girls instinctively look beyond looks Crazy truth #1

What most guys never Know:

What most guys never Know The Hot looking guy vs. Our Hero (you) the average guy

Question 4 girls:

i f you secretly want your friend to be jealous about a guy you’ve caught, would you rather they to be jealous because he is a good looking guy or just a great guy? (choose one) Question 4 girls

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This question took the truth about how girls are wired even further . We(guys)could summarize what we found like this: Though we like guys probably want our buddies to be envious that we have a hot babe on our arms ,girls think differently.

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77% want their friends to be jealous that he is such a great guy

Here is what the girls said:

“Looks are not even on the radar screen for me. It is totally who he is on the inside. “ Here is what the girls said

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“Looks comes and go, but you can’t have a relationship on that”

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Real guys are attractive because of who they are inside, a hot guy without much personality Quickly gets boring.”

Crazy truth #2:

Truth #1 lead us to ask an important question. S o, What are those other important qualities that girls like so much? That leads us to crazy truth #2 Crazy truth #2

Take- A-note:

Take- A-note Top 3 traits Sense of humor Thoughtfulness Self-confidence

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Well , amigo the facts don’t lie .And they come down strongly in favor of Averages guys. In the survey girls that who identified them selves having an important personal faith , almost half of the girls who went to church or synagogue each week put this trait in their top 3 “Genuine faith”

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Genuine faith: live your faith

Smart move girls wish every guy would make :

Smart move girls wish every guy would make Smart move 1 Take humor seriously Smart move 2 bring the fun ;be the adventure . Smart move 3 Cut loose with your inner gentleman Smart move 4 step out to confident Smart move 5 Live your faith

A guy’s guide to the Alien gender:

A guy’s guide to the Alien gender