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Conflict Resolution 解决冲突:

Conflict Resolution 解决冲突

James 4:1 “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?” “你们中间的争战斗殴是从那里来的呢?不是从你们百体中战斗之私欲来的吗?”:

James 4:1 “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you?” “ 你们中间的争战斗殴是从那里来的呢?不是从你们百体中战斗之私欲来的吗? ”

“We fall in love with our spouse’s strengths, but we marry their weaknesses.” 我们爱上我们的配偶的优势,但我们结婚他们的弱点:

“We fall in love with our spouse’s strengths, but we marry their weaknesses.” 我们爱上我们的配偶的优势,但我们结婚他们的弱点

Romans 7:14-27 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin. For what I am doing, I do now understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice, but what I hate that I do. If, then, I do want I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good. But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me. For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells, for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, I practice… O wretched man that I am!:

Romans 7:14-27 For we know that the law is spiritual, but I am carnal, sold under sin. For what I am doing, I do now understand. For what I will to do, that I do not practice, but what I hate that I do. If, then, I do want I will not to do, I agree with the law that it is good. But now, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells in me. For I know that in me (that is, in my flesh) nothing good dwells, for to will is present with me, but how to perform what is good I do not find. For the good that I will to do, I do not do; but the evil I will not to do, I practice… O wretched man that I am!

罗马书 7:14-27 我们原晓得律法是属乎灵的,但我是属乎肉体的,是已经卖给罪了。 因为我所做的,我自己不明白;我所愿意的,我并不做;我所恨恶的,我倒去做。 若我所做的,是我所不愿意的,我就应承律法是善的。 既是这样,就不是我做的,乃是住在我里头的罪做的。 我也知道在我里头,就是我肉体之中,没有良善。 因为,立志为善由得我,只是行出来由不得我。 故此,我所愿意的善,我反不做;我所不愿意的恶,我倒去做。我真是苦啊!谁能救我脱离这取死的身体呢? :

罗马书 7:14-27 我们原晓得律法是属乎灵的,但我是属乎肉体的,是已经卖给罪了。 因为我所做的,我自己不明白;我所愿意的,我并不做;我所恨恶的,我倒去做。 若我所做的,是我所不愿意的,我就应承律法是善的。 既是这样,就不是我做的,乃是住在我里头的罪做的。 我也知道在我里头,就是我肉体之中,没有良善。 因为,立志为善由得我,只是行出来由不得我。 故此,我所愿意的善,我反不做;我所不愿意的恶,我倒去做。我真是苦啊!谁能救我脱离这取死的身体呢?

Conflicts and Friction are due to: 冲突和摩擦是由于::

Conflicts and Friction are due to: 冲突和摩擦是由于 :

Conflicts and Friction are due to 冲突和摩擦是由于::

Conflicts and Friction are due to 冲突和摩擦是由于 : Inner Conflict 内心冲突 Imperfections 缺陷 Unwanted change 不需要的更改 Personal differences 个人差异

In Relational Conflict, we can respond in one of the five ways. 在关系的冲突,我们可以在五个途径之一作出回应。:

In Relational Conflict, we can respond in one of the five ways. 在关系的冲突,我们可以在五个途径之一作出回应。

1) I’LL GET THEM! 我们选择报复和报复;复仇:

1) I’LL GET THEM! 我们选择报复和报复;复仇

2) I’LL GET OUT! 我们选择逃避;我们分手,避免他们:

2) I’LL GET OUT! 我们选择逃避;我们分手,避免他们

3) I’LL GIVE IN! 我们选择投降,让他们有自己的方式:

3) I’LL GIVE IN! 我们选择投降,让他们有自己的方式

4) I’LL GO HALF! 我们选择妥协,中途符合:

4) I’LL GO HALF! 我们选择妥协,中途符合

5) I’LL DEAL WITH IT! 我们选择在一个健康的 方式处理这一问题:

5) I’LL DEAL WITH IT! 我们选择在一个健康的 方式处理这一问题

Conflict is Natural. 冲突是自然的 :

Conflict is Natural. 冲突是自然的  

Conflict is Neutral. 冲突是中性的 :

Conflict is Neutral. 冲突是中性的  

Conflict is Normal. 冲突是正常的:

Conflict is Normal. 冲突是正常的

Philemon 腓利門書   Philemon Onesimus:

Philemon 腓利門書   Philemon Onesimus

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Apostle Paul’s approach in resolving the conflict Compliment 称赞 (Vs 4-7) Compromise 妥协 (Vs 8 -13)   Choice 选择 (Vs 14) Challenge 挑战 (Vs 15-20) Confidence 信心 (Vs 21,22)

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5. Confidence 信心 See it clearly 看清楚 Show it constantly 不断显示它 Say it creatively 创造性地说它

Luke 6:36-38 Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.“   你们要慈悲,像你们的父慈悲一样。」 「你们不要论断人,就不被论断;你们不要定人的罪,就不被定罪;你们要饶恕人,就必蒙饶恕(饶恕:原文作释放); 你们要给人,就必有给你们的,并且用十足的升斗,连摇带按,上尖下流的倒在你们怀里;因为你们用什麽量器量给人,也必用什麽量器量给你们。」:

L uke 6:36-38 Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful. "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For with the measure you use it will be measured back to you.“   你们要慈悲,像你们的父慈悲一样。 」 「你们不要论断人,就不被论断;你们不要定人的罪,就不被定罪;你们要饶恕人,就必蒙饶恕(饶恕:原文作释放); 你们要给人,就必有给你们的,并且用十足的升斗,连摇带按,上尖下流的倒在你们怀里;因为你们用什麽量器量给人,也必用什麽量器量给你们。 」

C.S.Lewis – “Forgiveness is a wonderful idea, until we forgive someone.” 宽恕是一个绝妙的主意, 直到我们宽恕别人:

C.S.Lewis – “Forgiveness is a wonderful idea, until we forgive someone.” 宽恕是一个绝妙的主意, 直到我们宽恕别人

Three types of Christian – Mature, Growing & Baby Christian 三种类型的基督教 – 成熟,成长和婴儿基督教   :

Three types of Christian – Mature, Growing & Baby Christian 三种类型的基督教 – 成熟,成长和婴儿基督教  

The Bible says “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the Sons of God.” Matthew 5:9   圣经上说“使人和睦的人有福了!因为他们必称为神的儿子。”马太福音5:9:

The Bible says “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called the Sons of God.” Matthew 5:9   圣经上说 “ 使人和睦的人有福了!因为他们必称为神的儿子。 ” 马太福音5:9

WHOLENESS:

WHOLENESS Peace with God Peach with Self Peace with Others

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LET US

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Come Holy Spirit Fall afresh on me Fill me with Your power Satisfy my needs Only You can make me whole Give me strength to make me grow Come Holy Spirit Fall afresh on me 親愛的聖靈,再次觸摸我。 你大能充滿我,滿足我需要。 只有你可醫治我,可一生都堅固我。 親愛的聖靈,再次觸摸我。

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