logging in or signing up how to forgive a spouse for cheating – is it possible to forgive and f frmeital Download Post to : URL : Related Presentations : Share Add to Flag Embed Email Send to Blogs and Networks Add to Channel Uploaded from authorPOINT lite Insert YouTube videos in PowerPont slides with aS Desktop Copy embed code: (To copy code, click on the text box) Embed: URL: Thumbnail: WordPress Embed Customize Embed The presentation is successfully added In Your Favorites. Views: 15 Category: Occasions/ Fam.. License: All Rights Reserved Like it (0) Dislike it (0) Added: July 10, 2011 This Presentation is Public Favorites: 0 Presentation Description You’ve been betrayed. The person that's supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it - leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever. It's a horrible feeling. The foundation of your marriage – fidelity and trust – is now broken. This is probably the biggest crisis that a relationship can go through. Comments Posting comment... Premium member Presentation Transcript How to forgive a spouse for cheating: How to forgive a spouse for cheating Is it Possible to Forgive and Forget?Slide 2: You’ve been betrayed . The person that's supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it - leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever.Slide 3: It's a horrible feeling. The foundation of your marriage – fidelity and trust – is now broken. This is probably the biggest crisis that a relationship can go through.Slide 4: But you have decided you want to save your relationship and move on with your life. You only have one problem : You do not think you are able to forgive your spouse.Slide 5: How to forgive a spouse for cheating ? The pain is too deep. You can't trust him any more and you don't know if he will do it again. You know you won't be able to go through something like this ever again. But if you don't forgive – it will be very hard to rebuild your relationship.Do You Feel You Just Want Things to Go Back The Way They Were?: Do You Feel You Just Want Things to Go Back The Way They Were? Most of us do. We just want our relationship to go back to the way it was before the betrayal. But why would you? The way it was is exactly what has led you to the kind of pain you are going through right now! Going back to the way it used to be – won't solve your problems .Slide 7: There is a different path to take – you can try to make your relationship BETTER than it was before. But that means you have to forgive .How to Forgive a Spouse for Cheating: How to Forgive a Spouse for Cheating You probably realize by now that you can't just "decide" to forgive. It doesn't work. Forgiveness takes time and work if you want it to be real and deep. The work starts with step no. 1 – Acceptance .Acceptance: Acceptance The work you have to do starts with acceptance. Acceptance is the road you take on your way to forgiving. Without this critical first step it is very hard to achieve real and sustaining forgiveness. It will allow you to cope with your anger, anxiety and help you rebuild the trust again.What does Acceptance mean? : What does Acceptance mean? It means to accept the terrible events that happened to your relationship. It's not something to take for granted – a betrayed person can spend most of his time shocked. You feel amazed that this thing happened to you and how did it happen behind your back when you were certain that everything is o.k.Slide 11: You have to get past the initial denial . You can't undo this reality. You can't go back to what used to be – and if you are honest with yourself – you know that things weren't so great .Slide 12: Accepting means realizing that forgiveness will not happen in a day , or a week, or even a month. Take that pressure off yourself. These awful feelings will not disappear in a day. Accept that and don't try to ignore it or "just get over it". It will only make things worse .What to Do After Acceptance?: What to Do After Acceptance? When you really accept your situation you are saying to your self - “I don’t like what happened. I don’t like the feeling the way I do but I am willing to tolerate it so I can move on and work on a better relationship than ever.Slide 14: Once you are able to do that, you will be able to move forward to the next steps - work through your anger, get rid of obsessive images and negative thoughts, and even rebuild the trust back to your relationship.http://how-to-save-marriage.org: http://how-to-save-marriage.org You can find these next steps in a FREE e-mail course by Dr. Frank Gunzburg – Click Here to Claim Your e-course – Right now! You do not have the permission to view this presentation. In order to view it, please contact the author of the presentation.
how to forgive a spouse for cheating – is it possible to forgive and f frmeital Download Post to : URL : Related Presentations : Share Add to Flag Embed Email Send to Blogs and Networks Add to Channel Uploaded from authorPOINT lite Insert YouTube videos in PowerPont slides with aS Desktop Copy embed code: (To copy code, click on the text box) Embed: URL: Thumbnail: WordPress Embed Customize Embed The presentation is successfully added In Your Favorites. Views: 15 Category: Occasions/ Fam.. License: All Rights Reserved Like it (0) Dislike it (0) Added: July 10, 2011 This Presentation is Public Favorites: 0 Presentation Description You’ve been betrayed. The person that's supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it - leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever. It's a horrible feeling. The foundation of your marriage – fidelity and trust – is now broken. This is probably the biggest crisis that a relationship can go through. Comments Posting comment... Premium member Presentation Transcript How to forgive a spouse for cheating: How to forgive a spouse for cheating Is it Possible to Forgive and Forget?Slide 2: You’ve been betrayed . The person that's supposed to be your best friend, the one you trusted most, has lied to you, cheated on you and shattered your life as you know it - leaving you angry, shocked, afraid and with no self confidence what so ever.Slide 3: It's a horrible feeling. The foundation of your marriage – fidelity and trust – is now broken. This is probably the biggest crisis that a relationship can go through.Slide 4: But you have decided you want to save your relationship and move on with your life. You only have one problem : You do not think you are able to forgive your spouse.Slide 5: How to forgive a spouse for cheating ? The pain is too deep. You can't trust him any more and you don't know if he will do it again. You know you won't be able to go through something like this ever again. But if you don't forgive – it will be very hard to rebuild your relationship.Do You Feel You Just Want Things to Go Back The Way They Were?: Do You Feel You Just Want Things to Go Back The Way They Were? Most of us do. We just want our relationship to go back to the way it was before the betrayal. But why would you? The way it was is exactly what has led you to the kind of pain you are going through right now! Going back to the way it used to be – won't solve your problems .Slide 7: There is a different path to take – you can try to make your relationship BETTER than it was before. But that means you have to forgive .How to Forgive a Spouse for Cheating: How to Forgive a Spouse for Cheating You probably realize by now that you can't just "decide" to forgive. It doesn't work. Forgiveness takes time and work if you want it to be real and deep. The work starts with step no. 1 – Acceptance .Acceptance: Acceptance The work you have to do starts with acceptance. Acceptance is the road you take on your way to forgiving. Without this critical first step it is very hard to achieve real and sustaining forgiveness. It will allow you to cope with your anger, anxiety and help you rebuild the trust again.What does Acceptance mean? : What does Acceptance mean? It means to accept the terrible events that happened to your relationship. It's not something to take for granted – a betrayed person can spend most of his time shocked. You feel amazed that this thing happened to you and how did it happen behind your back when you were certain that everything is o.k.Slide 11: You have to get past the initial denial . You can't undo this reality. You can't go back to what used to be – and if you are honest with yourself – you know that things weren't so great .Slide 12: Accepting means realizing that forgiveness will not happen in a day , or a week, or even a month. Take that pressure off yourself. These awful feelings will not disappear in a day. Accept that and don't try to ignore it or "just get over it". It will only make things worse .What to Do After Acceptance?: What to Do After Acceptance? When you really accept your situation you are saying to your self - “I don’t like what happened. I don’t like the feeling the way I do but I am willing to tolerate it so I can move on and work on a better relationship than ever.Slide 14: Once you are able to do that, you will be able to move forward to the next steps - work through your anger, get rid of obsessive images and negative thoughts, and even rebuild the trust back to your relationship.http://how-to-save-marriage.org: http://how-to-save-marriage.org You can find these next steps in a FREE e-mail course by Dr. Frank Gunzburg – Click Here to Claim Your e-course – Right now!