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聰明老人幸福十誡 : 聰明老人幸福十誡 “Ten taboos to happiness” for the intelligent aged persons
Slide2: 一、不要再替成年子女操心,才不會碎碎唸。 Don’ t be concerned about adult children any more, otherwise,
cannot stop the annoying chatters.
Slide3: 二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」,以免顧人怨 。 Don’t regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a guardian for them,
so to avoid incurring complaints.
Slide4: 三、不必事事都「非知道不可」,尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。
No necessary to know everything,
pay respect to the privacy and the right of decision-making of adult children.
Slide5: 四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心,尋找自己的園地,才不致天天望穿秋水。
Don’t regard children and grandchildren as a center of life,
look for personal social circles,
so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of anxious expectation and disappointment daily.
Slide6: 五、不要逢人就訴苦,寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。
Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising,
singing to sublime your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across
Slide7: 六、不要凡事抱怨,多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。
More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people have done for pleasing you.
Slide8: 七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突,這樣只會惡性循環,害了你的孫輩。
Don’t involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult children,
this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your grandchildren.
Slide9: 八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫,有病要治病,領了藥要服藥,治不好的要忍耐。
Don’t cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and take the necessary medical pills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure
Slide10: 九、不要疑心病太重,要感激還願意留在你身邊的人,免得最後連他也走了 !
Don’t be skeptical to others too much, be grateful to the person who left around you,
otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually
Slide11: 十、要多多親近神,有堅定的信仰,對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度 。
Participate in religious
activities often, be stick to belief and take pleasant,
optimistic attitudes toward the future.