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Edit Comment Close Premium member Presentation Transcript Success Is Achieving Your Dreams : Success Is Achieving Your Dreams Knowledge Learning Solutions Conrad Brian Law URSuccess.com Success Is Achieving Your Dreams : Success Is Achieving Your Dreams What is the American Dream? Self-Esteem Character Setting Goals Balancing Work & Family Analyzing Your Day To Do List Life Is Difficult : Life Is Difficult M. Scott Peck’s – The Road Less Traveled We live in a society that teaches us to avoid the things that bring us pain It is those same things that help us grow We must be willing to proceed w/o worrying about failure Successful people know that their failures are not a definition of who they are Most of us are afraid of trying because we do not want to fail What Is The American Dream? : What Is The American Dream? 50% of all full time workers make $32,000 or less Source: BLS Current Population Survey 2004 Can qualify for a home costing $75,000 Only if they don’t have a car payment Average American home costs $125,000 The American Dream calls for a home & a car Why do you go to work? Why should you seek advancement? Self-Esteem : Self-Esteem The importance of self-esteem. How well do you like yourself? Characteristics of Low Self-Esteem. Characteristics of High Self-Esteem. How to develop self-esteem. Character IMPORTANCE OF SELF ESTEEM : IMPORTANCE OF SELF ESTEEM Self Love Self Respect Possessing a high opinion of oneself Self validation is extremely important You are your first level of approval “I’M OKAY - YOU’RE OKAY” HOW WELL DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF? : HOW WELL DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF? Characteristics of LowSelf-Esteem : Characteristics of LowSelf-Esteem Low Self-Esteem : Low Self-Esteem Slow to volunteer. Focus on their fears and worries. Often shy and withdrawn. At the other extreme, loud and boisterous. Have lists of ways to get out of doing things Reluctant to risk full effort. Saves face by saying, “Who cares?” Will lie and cheat to avoid challenges. Characteristics of HighSelf-Esteem : Characteristics of HighSelf-Esteem High Self-Esteem : High Self-Esteem Works cooperatively with others. Usually have a wide circle of friends. Are open to the ideas of others. Are not overly concerned with what others think about them. Takes pride in their accomplishments and are creative. Takes responsibility for their actions. High Self-Esteem (2) : High Self-Esteem (2) Are generally aware of their own strengths and weaknesses. Attribute their success to their own abilities and efforts. Are not afraid to express their opinions. Tend to be selected as leaders. Generally have an optimistic view of life. How Do You Develop High Self-Esteem? : How Do You Develop High Self-Esteem? Treat people as you want to be treated. Perform Random Acts of Kindness. Recite Affirmations Daily Take responsibility for your actions CHARACTER : CHARACTER A distinctive trait in a person The pattern of behavior of a person Usually measured in terms of values Moral strength, self-discipline, fortitude A good reputation = good character What you do when nobody is there to see you Determine Your Values and Take a Position : Determine Your Values and Take a Position Honor Honesty Truthfulness Kindness Generosity Helpfulness Courage Conviction Justice Respect Freedom Equality Influences To Your Self-Esteem : Influences To Your Self-Esteem Peers (friends & associates) Family Teachers/School Work Experiences The Media Ability – What can I do? Appearance – How do I look? Traits To Avoid : Traits To Avoid Self-condemnation Disappointed expectations Resentment Worry Manipulation by others Self-destructive tendencies Traits To Cultivate : Traits To Cultivate Fight fear (of failure to...) Be self-confident (a can do attitude) Improve inner strengths (character/values) Learn to live, love, and laugh with others Motivate yourself to be who you want to be Set goals and work to reach them Practice restraint, respect, and responsibility Believe In Yourself : Believe In Yourself If you don’t, why should anyone else? You can be anything you want to be and you can control your own destiny. We all possess character and its up to us whether its good or bad - no one gives it to us or can take it away from us. With a positive attitude you can LOVE YOURSELF better. Why Do We Need Goals? : Why Do We Need Goals? Goals give you direction in all areas of your life – Personal, Career, Spiritual, Material, and Contribution Goals give you a purpose in life. A reason to get up early in the morning and go to bed late at night Goals will put drive and passion into your life Not having goals is similar to sailing a ship across the Atlantic without a map. Goals, like maps, help you get to your destination much faster than sailing though life aimlessly How Do We Set Goals? : How Do We Set Goals? First you must dream! Dream of everything you want, and have always wanted in every facet of your life. There are no limits. Ask yourself, “What would I attempt to do, if I knew I could not fail?” “What would I want for my life if I knew I could have it?” Allow yourself to dream like you did as a child. Let your imagination run wild! Brainstorm Write your ideas down on paper and decide which ones are the most important to you. Review what you have written down on paper. Now its is time to define your dream precisely. Which of these goals are most important to you, and why? On a fresh piece of paper, write down one goal at a time. Beside the heading, write down a deadline for achieving that goal. Be sure that the deadline is realistic. To help achieve the long term goal, set a timeline using short term goals. For example, if your long term personal goal is to loose 60 lbs. in one year, set short term goals leading up to the long term goal. In this example you might set short term goal to loose 5 lbs. per month. This is an effective way to evaluating your progress helping you to determine if you have to make changes to your action plan. The Secrets To Achieving Your Goals : The Secrets To Achieving Your Goals 1. Make your goals Inspirational 2. Define your goals with Clarity 3. Write a Paragraph 4. Write Another Paragraph! 5. Constantly Evaluate Your Progress 6. Never Lose Sight of Your Goal 7. Don’t Procrastinate The Benefits Of Goal Setting : The Benefits Of Goal Setting You will notice an increase in your energy level as you begin to live your life with passion – the passion that having a meaningful goal will give you. You will be in control of your life and the direction you are heading. Your life does not have to be determined by fate alone. With goals, you create your destiny. 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Edit Comment Close Premium member Presentation Transcript Success Is Achieving Your Dreams : Success Is Achieving Your Dreams Knowledge Learning Solutions Conrad Brian Law URSuccess.com Success Is Achieving Your Dreams : Success Is Achieving Your Dreams What is the American Dream? Self-Esteem Character Setting Goals Balancing Work & Family Analyzing Your Day To Do List Life Is Difficult : Life Is Difficult M. Scott Peck’s – The Road Less Traveled We live in a society that teaches us to avoid the things that bring us pain It is those same things that help us grow We must be willing to proceed w/o worrying about failure Successful people know that their failures are not a definition of who they are Most of us are afraid of trying because we do not want to fail What Is The American Dream? : What Is The American Dream? 50% of all full time workers make $32,000 or less Source: BLS Current Population Survey 2004 Can qualify for a home costing $75,000 Only if they don’t have a car payment Average American home costs $125,000 The American Dream calls for a home & a car Why do you go to work? Why should you seek advancement? Self-Esteem : Self-Esteem The importance of self-esteem. How well do you like yourself? Characteristics of Low Self-Esteem. Characteristics of High Self-Esteem. How to develop self-esteem. Character IMPORTANCE OF SELF ESTEEM : IMPORTANCE OF SELF ESTEEM Self Love Self Respect Possessing a high opinion of oneself Self validation is extremely important You are your first level of approval “I’M OKAY - YOU’RE OKAY” HOW WELL DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF? : HOW WELL DO YOU LIKE YOURSELF? Characteristics of LowSelf-Esteem : Characteristics of LowSelf-Esteem Low Self-Esteem : Low Self-Esteem Slow to volunteer. Focus on their fears and worries. Often shy and withdrawn. At the other extreme, loud and boisterous. Have lists of ways to get out of doing things Reluctant to risk full effort. Saves face by saying, “Who cares?” Will lie and cheat to avoid challenges. Characteristics of HighSelf-Esteem : Characteristics of HighSelf-Esteem High Self-Esteem : High Self-Esteem Works cooperatively with others. Usually have a wide circle of friends. Are open to the ideas of others. Are not overly concerned with what others think about them. Takes pride in their accomplishments and are creative. Takes responsibility for their actions. High Self-Esteem (2) : High Self-Esteem (2) Are generally aware of their own strengths and weaknesses. Attribute their success to their own abilities and efforts. Are not afraid to express their opinions. Tend to be selected as leaders. Generally have an optimistic view of life. How Do You Develop High Self-Esteem? : How Do You Develop High Self-Esteem? Treat people as you want to be treated. Perform Random Acts of Kindness. Recite Affirmations Daily Take responsibility for your actions CHARACTER : CHARACTER A distinctive trait in a person The pattern of behavior of a person Usually measured in terms of values Moral strength, self-discipline, fortitude A good reputation = good character What you do when nobody is there to see you Determine Your Values and Take a Position : Determine Your Values and Take a Position Honor Honesty Truthfulness Kindness Generosity Helpfulness Courage Conviction Justice Respect Freedom Equality Influences To Your Self-Esteem : Influences To Your Self-Esteem Peers (friends & associates) Family Teachers/School Work Experiences The Media Ability – What can I do? Appearance – How do I look? Traits To Avoid : Traits To Avoid Self-condemnation Disappointed expectations Resentment Worry Manipulation by others Self-destructive tendencies Traits To Cultivate : Traits To Cultivate Fight fear (of failure to...) Be self-confident (a can do attitude) Improve inner strengths (character/values) Learn to live, love, and laugh with others Motivate yourself to be who you want to be Set goals and work to reach them Practice restraint, respect, and responsibility Believe In Yourself : Believe In Yourself If you don’t, why should anyone else? You can be anything you want to be and you can control your own destiny. We all possess character and its up to us whether its good or bad - no one gives it to us or can take it away from us. With a positive attitude you can LOVE YOURSELF better. Why Do We Need Goals? : Why Do We Need Goals? Goals give you direction in all areas of your life – Personal, Career, Spiritual, Material, and Contribution Goals give you a purpose in life. A reason to get up early in the morning and go to bed late at night Goals will put drive and passion into your life Not having goals is similar to sailing a ship across the Atlantic without a map. Goals, like maps, help you get to your destination much faster than sailing though life aimlessly How Do We Set Goals? : How Do We Set Goals? First you must dream! Dream of everything you want, and have always wanted in every facet of your life. There are no limits. Ask yourself, “What would I attempt to do, if I knew I could not fail?” “What would I want for my life if I knew I could have it?” Allow yourself to dream like you did as a child. Let your imagination run wild! Brainstorm Write your ideas down on paper and decide which ones are the most important to you. Review what you have written down on paper. Now its is time to define your dream precisely. Which of these goals are most important to you, and why? On a fresh piece of paper, write down one goal at a time. Beside the heading, write down a deadline for achieving that goal. Be sure that the deadline is realistic. To help achieve the long term goal, set a timeline using short term goals. For example, if your long term personal goal is to loose 60 lbs. in one year, set short term goals leading up to the long term goal. In this example you might set short term goal to loose 5 lbs. per month. This is an effective way to evaluating your progress helping you to determine if you have to make changes to your action plan. The Secrets To Achieving Your Goals : The Secrets To Achieving Your Goals 1. Make your goals Inspirational 2. Define your goals with Clarity 3. Write a Paragraph 4. Write Another Paragraph! 5. Constantly Evaluate Your Progress 6. Never Lose Sight of Your Goal 7. Don’t Procrastinate The Benefits Of Goal Setting : The Benefits Of Goal Setting You will notice an increase in your energy level as you begin to live your life with passion – the passion that having a meaningful goal will give you. You will be in control of your life and the direction you are heading. Your life does not have to be determined by fate alone. With goals, you create your destiny. Goals give you a purpose in life. A reason to get up early and go to bed late. Reprint Copyright (c) 1999 Glen Hopkins. www.Motivational-Messages.com Analyzing Your DayDay of Week: _______________ Date: ___________ : Analyzing Your DayDay of Week: _______________ Date: ___________ To Do ListDay of Week: _______________ Date: ___________ : To Do ListDay of Week: _______________ Date: ___________