Courtship, dating and marriage

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Lesson 1: Courtship, Dating and Marriage

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Definition: Infatuation is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire.   Associated with: Selfish uncontrollable desire.   Sub-Categories: Physical desire, crush, or lust , hormonal activity, addictive chemical reactions in the brain     Definition: A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care. Associated with: Decision to devote yourself to another person for better or worse.   Sub-Categories: Intimacy, commitment, security       Infatuation Love

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  Symptoms: Urgency, intensity, sexual desire, anxiety, high risk choices, reckless abandonment of what was once valued Feels like: All consuming euphoria similar to recreational drug use (addictive chemical reactions in the brain), stupidity (cupidity); Can risk everything for the next hit of adrenalin   Symptoms: Faithfulness, confidence. Willingness to make sacrifices for another. Working at settling differences. Able to compromise so that either both win or at least give the other person's opinion a chance. Feels like: A deep affection, contentment, confidence. Partners communicate and negotiate appropriate expectations. Requires a lot of selflessness and polite assertiveness.   Infatuation Love

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Person to Person: Reckless commitment to satisfy one's all consuming lust.   Effect: Being controlled by brain chemistry; loss of ability to make rational evaluations of what is true, valuable and worthy of pursuit Person to Person: Commitment to another     Effect: Steadfast decision to commit yourself to another person.     Infatuation Love

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Result: Emptiness, consequences of choices made while under the influence of mind numbing lust;  Result: Security, peace, a solid partnership which can provide the ideal atmosphere to raise confident secure children; a more stable society; radical decrease in the need for welfare, jails, lawyers and mental health counselors. Infatuation Love

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Interdependency: Cannot be sustained without some portion of love and physical attraction, always desire to be close to that person at any cost. Time Period: Takes off fast and furious like a spark in dry grass burns out quickly and can leave feelings of emptiness.  Interdependency: Partnership Time Period: Long term offering of companionship and support Infatuation Love

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Attraction is admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better. It usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush. Infatuation is admiration for someone while not recognizing that person’s flaws. Crushes usually last for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months. These feelings are completely normal and are part of becoming a young adult.

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Most people begin to form romantic relationships based on love. Love is deep affection for someone and is based on a true desire for the other person’s best interests. In a healthy relationship, the other person shares and responds with the same kind of love. Learning to develop, nurture and even deal with the loss of these relationships are important ways to prepare for adult relationships.

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DEFINITIONS / MEANINGS / WORDS THAT YOU ASSOCIATE WITH COURTSHIP PRACTICES ASSOCIATED WITH COURTSHIP IMPORTANCE OF COURTSHIP Activity 2:

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"Mahal kita, mahal kita, hindi ito bola."

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Courtship is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage or it is an establishment of an agreed relationship of a more enduring kind . During courtship a couple gets to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement or such agreement . A courtship may be an informal and private matter between two people or may be a public affair or a formal arrangement with family approval.

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different traditional practices of courtship in the Philippines Ilocos and Tagalog regions Harana balagtasan Bulacan prickles Kalinga ebgan Ifugaos ca -i-sing Tingguians pangisto Pangasinan taga-amo "tamer" use of palabas

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different traditional practices of courtship in the Philippines Apayao mahal-alay Palawan pasaguli pabalic / pabalik Visayas balak Leyte pangagad or paninilbihan Bicol pamianan .

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different traditional practices of courtship in the Philippines Tausugs Palabas , sarakahan tupul , or magpasumbahi , Bagobos sends a knife or a spear Muslims Pre-arranged marriages and betrothals

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Courtship Practices at the Age of Technology A suitor can court a woman through the use of cellphones. Frequent texting and calling one another develop their feeling of belongingness until such feeling develops into a deeper relationship resulting to love.

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Courtship Practices at the Age of Technology A man can court a woman through Facebook , Twitter , Skype or other social networking sites.

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Why is it important for couples to undergo a courtship? 1. Courting gives time to understand one another. 2. It reveals one’s interests, likes and dislikes limitations, and other aspirations in life.

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Why is it important for couples to undergo a courtship? 3. It allows couples to decide whether they want to be committed. 4. It allows couples to know if they are ready to be committed.

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Why is it important for couples to undergo a courtship? 5. It develops security. 6. It develops understanding and acceptance.

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Showing Affection Whether or not you are dating, there are many healthy ways for persons to show affection which may lead to courtship between persons, especially of the opposite sex who are physically and emotionally attracted with one another. It is an important part of being close friends to build trust and confidence with one another.

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Activity 3 - Identify the pictures of showing affection and give other examples.

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Giving a smile or a kind laugh to someone Telling someone how much he / she means to you Remembering important events in one‟s life especially a birthday Writing a card, a note, or a letter Giving a small gift, such as flowers and chocolate Texting , chatting in social networking sites, communicating via internet Spending quality time together Cheering for someone at a game or performance Holding hands Patting shoulders WAYS OF SHOWING AFFECTION

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Activity 4 – Do You Know? What does it mean to go on a date? What are the activities usually done during dates? How does it differ from a regular outing? What are its advantages and disadvantages?

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DATING It is a social activity which involves two or more people generally assessing each other’s suitability for a potential relationship. Dating can also be enjoyed as part of an already active relationship. The word dating actually comes from the arranging of a time and date of meeting. It is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two people, as partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. It refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity, together, as a couple.

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c. Group date – where any number of couples can enjoy a date Types of Dating: a. Standard date – involves two people b. Double date – two couples go on a date at the same time and place

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It forms affection and respect. It strengthens the relationship. It gives quality time to each other. It leads one to observe the other person’s character. . Importance of Dating

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Provides an opportunity for one to know his/her strengths and weaknesses in dealing with the opposite sex. It allows you to get to know the person you are in a relationship with, while having a good time. Helps to reveal any potential problems you may have if pursuing a more serious relationship with a person, and it sets the foundation for marriage . Importance of Dating

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Going steady is a period wherein the relationship between two people remains strong and well.

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Engagemen t – a period of agreement entered between two people in love for them to be able to know each other and their families well enough to be sure that they are ready and are suited for life-long companionship. It provides opportunity to develop interpersonal skills useful before and even within marriage. Time of understanding and devoting much time to explore each other’s strengths and weaknesses so they could adjust to one another.

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Activity 5 If you are engaged, which do you prefer, Long Engagement or Short Engagement period?

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Marriage is the most enjoyable human relationship. It is the most significant event that may happen to your life. It takes only two people, a man and a woman to unite and make a successful relationship as married couple. Marriage is a lifelong partnership of a man and a woman. It is two unique individuals, who understand, respect, care, and love each other. It is a bond between two people who continue to grow and develop their best qualities as human beings. Marriage is not a mere contract but an inviolable social institution. Its nature, consequences and practices are governed by law and not subject to stipulation except that the marriage settlements may to a certain extent fix the property relations during the marriage. (Civil Code of the Philippines)

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Marriage is a cherished institution under which man and woman believe in one faith and children are conceived, raised, and nourished to become useful and productive citizens of the country and the world. It is essential to the continuity of the human race. Filipinos view marriage as a sacrament and a lifelong commitment. Husband and wife work for the successful and harmonious relationship at home and among family members. Trust, respect, kindness, and love are essential factors to attain this goal.

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 1. Maturity a) Can make good decisions b) Responsible in handling relationships

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 2. Fidelity a) Can make the relationship lasting b) Sincere and true to his / her promises c) Considers relationships sacred

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 3. Commitment a) Can make peaceful and lasting relationship b) Dedicated in fulfilling his / her responsibilities

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 4. Love a) Strengthens relationship b) Understands one is partner c) Enduring

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 5. Economic Readiness a) Aims for better future of the family b) Financially stable c) Good provider for the needs of the family

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 6. Physical Maturity a) Proud of having good partner b) Have healthy body

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Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life: 7. Character a) Responsible and honest b) Hard-working and industrious c) Respectful and compassionate d) God-fearing

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EXECUTIVE ORDER NO. 209 THE FAMILY CODE OF THE PHILIPPINES July 6, 1987 Marriage is a special contract of permanent union between a man and a woman entered into in accordance with law for the establishment of conjugal and family life. It is the foundation of the family and an inviolable social institution... < Source: www.chanrobles.com/executiveorderno209.htm > The Family Code of the Philippines sets eighteen (18) as the age of majority of the Filipinos. However, for marriages between the ages of 18-21, the written consent of the parent is required. Without the written consent, the marriage is voidable. A person who is between the ages 21-25 is obliged to ask their parents or guardian for advice and has to make a sworn statement that advice was sought and given. If there is no parental advice or if the advice is unfavourable , the marriage license is issued only after three months after the publication of the application for the license. The marriage of persons who are below 18 years of age is void (not lawful, not legal) and therefore, no true marriage took place.

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RECIPE / INGREDIENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE 1. Love 2. Understanding / Respect 3. Care 4. Loyalty 5. A Shared Philosophy 6. Cooperation 7. Growth 8. Involvement 9. Sharing and Giving 10. Communication

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1. A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care. :

1. A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care.

2. It is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire. :

2. It is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire.

3. It is an admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better. It usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush. :

3. It is an admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better. It usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush.

4. It usually last for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months. :

4. It usually last for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months.

5.It is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage:

5.It is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage

6. A type of courtship that may be in private matter between two people:

6. A type of courtship that may be in private matter between two people

7. A type of courtship that may be a public affair or arrangement with family approval.:

7. A type of courtship that may be a public affair or arrangement with family approval.

8. It comes from the arranging of a time and date of meeting. :

8. It comes from the arranging of a time and date of meeting.

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9. It is not a mere contract but an inviolable social institution. Its nature, consequences and practices are governed by law and not subject to stipulation.

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10. It is a period wherein the relationship between two people remains strong and well.

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11. A period of agreement entered between two people in love for them to be able to know each other and their families well enough to be sure that they are ready and are suited for life-long companionship.

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12. A type of dating that involves two people

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13. A type of dating where in two couples go on a date at the same time and place .

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A type of dating w here in any number of couples can enjoy a date. 14.

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15. Factor Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life:

1. A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care. :

1. A decision to commit oneself to another and to work through conflicts instead of giving up. A deeper understanding or care. LOVE

2. It is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire. :

2. It is the state of being completely carried away by unreasoning desire. INFATUATION

3. It is an admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better. It usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush. :

3. It is an admiration for someone that may include the desire to get to know that person better. It usually takes place in the form of infatuation or crush. ATTRACTION

4. It usually last for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months. :

4. It usually last for only a short time, few weeks or maybe a few months. CRUSH

5. It is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage:

5. It is the period in a couple's relationship which precedes their engagement and marriage COURTSHIP

6. A type of courtship that may be in private matter between two people:

6. A type of courtship that may be in private matter between two people INFORMAL

7. A type of courtship that may be a public affair or arrangement with family approval.:

7. A type of courtship that may be a public affair or arrangement with family approval. FORMAL

8. It comes from the arranging of a time and date of meeting. :

8. It comes from the arranging of a time and date of meeting. DATING

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9. It is not a mere contract but an inviolable social institution. Its nature, consequences and practices are governed by law and not subject to stipulation MARRIAGE

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10. It is a period wherein the relationship between two people remains strong and well. GOING STEADY

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11. A period of agreement entered between two people in love for them to be able to know each other and their families well enough to be sure that they are ready and are suited for life-long companionship. ENGAGEMENT

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12. involves two people STANDARD DATE

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13. T wo couples go on a date at the same time and place . DOUBLE DATE

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W here any number of couples can enjoy a date. 14. GROUP DATE

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15. Factors Necessary to Consider in Choosing a Lifetime Partner to Work Out for Successful Married Life:

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Activity 8:My Ideal Partner On a separate sheet of paper, draw, and color your ideal man / woman. Below your drawing, write the characteristics you expect from him / her. Activity 9: Can you cite another law that strengthens the bond of a man and a woman as a couple? Share it by writing your ideas in your activity notebook. Remember to present it in class and to share it to your friends / classmates, relatives, or neighbours. Assignment:

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