Sisters, it is time to question ourselves

Black women, questioning ourselves PT 1 : 

Black women, questioning ourselves PT 1 To my sisters. This is some though love. This is the first of videos I will be making ONLY about NUBIAN WOMEN.

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally : 

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally The hair issue is a VERY touchy subject among us sisters. But I believe black children should be given a CHOICE as they grow OLDER about how they want their hair to be. Also it is a well know fact that hair relaxers often damage hair and leave hair broken. Yet we risk everything for straight hair? Straight hair is better than that stubborn kinky hair right??? Why do we continue to use that SLAVE mentality?

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally CONTINUED : 

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally CONTINUED Weaves- I think personally CAN BE A STYLE but MANY BLACK WOMEN make it a LIFESTYLE!!! For all you long term weavers all I can say is that is ONE F*ED UP HAIR LINE. Braids – I don’t see any problem with it once in a while. Cornrows – I prefer my hair corncrowed it is stylish and pretty.

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally CONTINUED : 

Black women – Wear our hair more naturally CONTINUED Natural hair – IS WELL I HAVE FINALLY realized is JUST PLAIN BEAUTIFUL. It may NOT be the hair that Americans or Europeans cherish or appreciate but it is the TRUTH. So-called Afros are VERY SOFT and are NOT as difficult to take care OF as every one states! However I do suggest brushing natural hair when it is wet.

Black woman – Self worth : 

Black woman – Self worth MOST sisters it seems YOU ARE DEPENDING LARGELY or ENTIRELY on the opinions of what men THINK and FEEL about you. That kind of behavior is really damaging because if you DEPENDLY solely on that WILL YOU EVER BE DISAPOINTED. Depend on YOURSELF and if you believe in God depend on him too! Sisters, you are strong and can do many things you do not NEED A MAN to re-assure you of your VALUE as a HUMAN.

Black woman – Self worth CONTINUED : 

Black woman – Self worth CONTINUED Sistahs a man in your life should COMPLEMENT YOU instead of pull you down man should be a PARTNER NOT your DICTATOR. Christianity and most religions say man is the head. Just because they say the man is the head does excuse him running a DICTATORSHIP on another HUMAN BEING. If Women should SUBMIT to a man, then he should also SUBMIT HIMSELF to HER.

Black woman – Self worth CONTINUED : 

Black woman – Self worth CONTINUED Issues should be discussed in a logical manner and compromises should be made when necessary. If a man thinks he has to control EVERYTHING (Finances, your whereabouts and even how you dress). He is NOT worth IT! Move on girl!

Black woman – Sex : 

Black woman – Sex Black women please do NOT ever be ashamed that you are a SEXUAL being! It is natural to want sex but just because you want something doesn’t mean you have to have it every time the urges come up. Do NOT be loose with your booty. Your body is precious why share it with SO many people? I’m no preacher LOL but for real!!!

Black woman – Sex CONTINUED : 

Black woman – Sex CONTINUED A lot of black men/men in general only want black women for sex why give into their desires? That is the way they LOVE TO CONTROL WOMEN AS OBJECTS. If your not an object don’t ACT LIKE ONE!!! Do not let a man FOOL you into FUCKING YOU!!! Black men will PLEAD! BEG! And GO OUT ON A LIMB FOR 5 MINUES worth of sex (IF THEY LAST THAT LONG LOL LOL).

Black woman – Sex CONTINUED : 

Black woman – Sex CONTINUED Should black women wait for sex? Well I don’t know these are just my advice and my opinions but I think YES they should. Waiting for how long? Maybe until you know you are for sure with this person and you know he RESPECTS YOU ENOUGH TO EVEN HOLD OUT. NOW THAT IS A REAL MAN. I give him a standing ovation.

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” : 

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” Although I was ready entirely to give up on black men! 100% and “get a white man” as an alternative. I think it would be unfair to me and white man. Perhaps some can find love interracially I don’t know most likely but the truth is black men are HURTING TOO and are FRUSTRATED! The ones that still love us will actively seek us out.

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” : 

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” Even in Interracial relationships there is A LOT black women have to deal with…it seems well stressful dealing with BOTH the white supremacists/nationalists/racists screaming in one ear and the black afrocentrics/nationalists/religious fundaMENTALists in another. What a horrid nightmare!!!

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” : 

Black woman – “don’t jump on the get a white man bandwagon” Let us not forget black men need LOVE too. Some have moved on and found love in the arms of a white woman or a Latina woman, if that your thing then fine.

Black women – Take care of ourselves physically : 

Black women – Take care of ourselves physically Ladies, too many of us are badly and I MEAN BADLY OUT OF SHAPE. Although I think black women are naturally more THICKER than most “races”. I think OBESITY IS NOT CONSIDERED THICK. There is a FINE LINE between THICK AND OBESE. Most of y’all KNOW IT and those that claim they don’t ARE IN DENIAL.

Black women – Take care of ourselves physically CONTINUED : 

Black women – Take care of ourselves physically CONTINUED How to know you should lose a couple of POUNDS: You have OVERHANG! You can be BIG and FIT TRUE but good chances are you will LOSE WEIGHT WITH MORE EFFORT. I’ve not always thought about it but BIG WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AND I RESPECT BIG SISTAHS Y’ALL NEED LOVE TOO.

Black women – my thoughts : 

Black women – my thoughts Women, I’m addressing you specifically because I think it is important that we at least QUESTION our selves about these issues and REALLY start to THINK critically about the issues I have raised. I hope to try at least help some on YT land. If one black woman learns or listens to what I have said at least that means something.

Black women – SISTAHS PLEASE DO NOT HATE ALL THE BLACK MEN : 

Black women – SISTAHS PLEASE DO NOT HATE ALL THE BLACK MEN Yes, women and ladies most or well A LOT of black men in the MASS MEDIA and especially on YOUTUBE are talking some HOT AIR. But at the end of the day they are well very similar to us: they face many of our own oppressions. Although I have lost ALOT of respect for black men. I still HAVE HOPE that someday it wouldn’t be as UGLY as it is NOW.

Black women PT 1- Conclusion : 

Black women PT 1- Conclusion List of positive sisters doing it big on YT Sahbisun Zellacury - fighting the myths! Sistacee30 Miss Funkentelect Peace out cherries and ice cream