How to Get Your Ex Back

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance Contents Disclaimer ............................................................................................. 3 Introduction .......................................................................................... 4 When Good Relationships Turn Bad ................................................... 6 Mistakes You Might Have Made ....................................................... 11 Re-Establishing Contact with Your Ex .............................................. 16 Rebuilding a Stronger Relationship ................................................... 19 Earning Your Happily Ever After Badge ........................................... 21

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance Disclaimer Reasonable care has been taken to ensure that the information presented in this book is accurate. However the reader should understand that the information provided does not constitute legal medical or professional advice of any kind. No Liability: this product is supplied “as is” and without warranties. All warranties express or implied are hereby disclaimed. Use of this product constitutes acceptance of the “No Liability” policy. If you do not agree with this policy you are not permitted to use or distribute this product. We shall not be liable for any losses or damages whatsoever including without limitation consequential loss or damage directly or indirectly arising from the use of this product.

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance Introduction There are literally thousands of couples across the world who have broken up with their perfect partners for them due to very simple misunderstandings. Its sad to think that many of these break-ups could have been completely avoided if each person just had a clearer understanding of what their partner was thinking and what they wanted from the relationship. Unfortunately because men and women are biologically so different to each other there are specific things we each do that can easily drive a partner away rather than keeping them close as wed intended. Of course you may be hurting. You might even be completely bewildered as to why your relationship has ended at all. But the reality is that good relationships break up all the time … needlessly. Thats right – needlessly. If men and women had a little more awareness of how the opposite sex was thinking then break ups need never happen. In fact you could have turned your relationship with your ex into a life-long happy partnership where neither of you would ever consider looking further afield. If youve recently broken up with the love of your life dont feel that all is lost. Theres still hope that you can win your ex back and its actually easier than you think. Even if youve tried everything you can think of to let your ex know how much you want to be together perhaps you have noticed its not working out the way youd planned. The problem is that were not taught about how the opposite sex thinks so its mostly a mystery to most people. Were stuck trying out tactics that we think may work without ever considering what our partner would prefer instead. This book will explain some very simple tactics that can give your ex a completely different view of the person you are and get him or her to fall in love with you all over again.

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance Are you ready to bring your ex back into your life again Are you really ready for them to fall in love with you deeper and stronger than the first time around Then lets get into the good stuff…

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance When Good Relationships Turn Bad Its unfortunate that sometimes even the very best relationships go sour but even if we cannot see it at first there is always a reason. There are actually countless reasons why good relationships turn bad and end up with a break-up. You might have endured meaningless arguments or you might have simply found that your ex stopped communicating with you completely and then pulled away leaving you in the dark about what was happening. People who are hurting and unsure of where their partner is at in the relationship often end up doing the exact opposite of the things they should be doing to bring their ex back to them. This is because men will tend to do the things that seem logical to a man and women will tend to try the tactics that they would want to see. It is a big lesson to learn that men and women think differently. Applying male logic to the problem of winning back a female is usually counterproductive as is the reverse i.e. applying female logic to the process of winning back a male. The really sad part about this is that despite their best intentions in these situations both men and women tend to do things that will actually turn off and push away the person they really want to bring back into their lives and without even knowing theyre doing it. This means theyre often doing the complete opposite of what they should be doing to bring back their ex and make that person a part of their lives again yet theyre totally unaware of it. Think about it. Is what youre doing right now to get your ex back working for you Or is it just driving that person further away from you making you feel even worse than you already do Lets look at some of the things men and women think about during relationships and how they view the actions of their partner. These

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance insights can often bring about a much deeper understanding of what might have gone wrong within the relationship and bring a deeper knowledge of what to do when good relationships go wrong. Men and Women are Biologically Different You may think that this is stating the obvious but apart from the obvious differences there are vital hormonal and other biological differences that set us apart. For example did you know that in order for men to decrease their stress levels theyll often look for ways to increase testosterone This means theyll watch the news when they get home from a long day seeking to find ways to spark their own "fix it" mode. This means they may enjoy grappling with other peoples problems because it sparks a need within them to try and solve the problems of the world. That may be what he is thinking about even though he might be stationary on the sofa. He will be unavailable for real-world problems while he is getting his own stress levels sorted out. When their testosterone levels are raised theyll feel much better about the world and seek to remedy their own problems only after theyve calmed down enough after a hard day at work where they’ve spent the day trying to show their loved ones how much of a good provider they can be. Unfortunately women have the completely opposite biologically drives which can cause problems within a relationship. For example when a woman has increased testosterone levels within her body it can actually increase her stress levels causing her to want to fight about trivial matters that her partner cant possibly understand. In order to reduce stress levels women will find ways to generate the hormone oxytocin. Curiously oxytocin is known in non-scientific circles as the "cuddle hormone" and its been linked strongly to

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance maternal behavior as well as being the bonding hormone that makes a woman want to bond more strongly with a partner. Now for women to create oxytocin they need to feel loved cherished and appreciated. When they tend to feel as though their partner is withdrawing from them for any reason this actually causes the hormone testosterone to flood their system instead which raises their stress levels and can tend to make them defensive. For a man to experience a decrease of testosterone conversely he experiences a similar reaction where his own stress levels increase and this makes him defensive too. Interesting stuff … eh How Hormones Can Ruin a Great Relationship Think about how many times youve been in a great mood looking forward to seeing your partner. You would have spent the day doing things that made you feel better about yourself. If youre female you might have spent some time working through your stress by talking to your girlfriends about various issues you have which would have raised your oxytocin levels. You would have been feeling great Yet when your ex finished work for the day he would have been stressed and wound up after a hard day. He has absolutely no desire to talk about his problems because this increases the wrong type of hormone within his system. All he wants to do is unwind – maybe solve the problems of the world sitting in front of the TV for a little while. But hes now faced with a partner who wants to talk and share and cuddle and be loving right at that moment where his stress levels are high and perhaps even unmanageable. He hasnt had a chance to

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance unwind from his own stressful day yet but hes now confronted with a partner whos feeling fine and doesnt seem to understand his needs at all. This is a simple example but do you see the problem here Even the best relationships can be destroyed by these simple hormonal differences between men and women if theres a lack of understanding about them. Of course there are relationships that go wrong for other reasons. When Relationships Go Wrong for Other Reasons What happens when youve done everything right and your ex still pulls away from you There are times when relationships go wrong for no reason that you can figure out at all. You may have thought everything was going great and yet your ex decided to stop calling you stop returning your messages and pull away from the relationship completely as though you werent there at all. The shunned partner often feels as though theyve done nothing wrong yet the partner who has withdrawn completely may have completely different ideas about where the relationship was going in the first place. The truth is when humans fall in love they release a particular hormone that is very similar to the one released by people suffering from Obsessive Compulsive Disorder OCD. This is one reason why people in love cant think of anything else but the person theyre with cant eat cant sleep properly and cant concentrate at work. Of course just because youre feeling this way doesnt necessarily mean your partner was feeling the same thing at the same time as you were. Just as not everyone gets hungry at the same time not everyone gets the same feelings at the same time.

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance The unfortunate part about this is that sometimes one person within the relationship will begin to think about progressing the relationship further. Theyll spend time thinking about the future of the and playing out various scenarios within their minds about what will happen once the partnership progresses past the dating stage. This can lead that person into believing that the relationship has actually evolved into something much deeper than has really happened whilst the other person may simply be still trying to figure out whats going on with their feelings. This is sometimes called the instant relationship. One partner thinks theyre just dating whilst the other one is already in full relationship mode and wondering why their partner doesnt appear to be reciprocating. The biggest mistake anyone can make in this situation is to try to convince their partner that they should be together or convince them about how much they love them. When men see this behavior in women it can be enough to make them want to slow things down or even break away wondering what is going on. They view their partner as somehow needy and desperate and they can sometimes pull away or even withdraw completely. Desperation and insecurity in a woman is a total turn-off for men. Yet there are plenty of men who are guilty of doing the exactly same thing to the women they adore. They may try to convince her that no one loves her as much as he does and try to reason with her that hes better for her than another man. The problem with these scenarios is that they have no real grasp on what theyre doing wrong. Think Back to the Beginning to Find the Answer In almost every break-up the solution to getting your ex back lies in thinking right back to the very beginning of the relationship. What was your partner like when you first met More importantly what were you like when you were together at the beginning

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How to Get Your Ex Back – 2 nd Chance Chances are you were both on your best behavior. You both worked hard to be sure the other person was having a good time. You also both would have overlooked any minor quirks in personality or behavior simply because you were driven to make a good impression on the other person. Now think about the last time you spent time with your ex. Were you both enjoying each others company Or were you fighting stressed upset or worried about what the other person was thinking If you were not getting along very well the chances are that the image your ex has of you in his/her mind is the image of you arguing angry crying upset and worried about the future of the relationship. This isnt conducive to thinking happy thoughts about a positive happy future together. Instead they are probably thinking about ways to find someone who is more like the person that you actually were when they first met you. Thats right – the person you were when you met. He/she would have fallen in love with the happy confident positive motivated independent person you were when you first met. You would have made him/her feel happy when he/she was with you and they would have enjoyed wondering when you were free in your busy schedule to see them again. So … what changed

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