What comes to your mind?: What comes to your mind? Most Likely Responses!!: Most Likely Responses!! Donkey!!!! Useless! Good for Nothing Most Ugly Taken for Granted Animal Seldom we get response that the Donkey is Hard working and Loyal animal Who Do You Admire Most?: Who Do You Admire Most? Write the name of one person that you know and admire the most Our Attitudes are our Most Important Assets: Our Attitudes are our Most Important Assets What lies behind us and What lies before us are tiny matters When compared to what lies within us Attitude Defined: Attitude Defined Attitude is the disposition you transmit to others It is the way you see things mentally from inside. Attitude: Cognitive representation that summarizes an individual’s evaluation of a particular person, group, action or idea Positive Attitude: Positive Attitude The outward manifestation of a mind that dwells primarily on positive matters. They have many thing common except the attitude: They have many thing common except the attitude The advantage of being Positive: The advantage of being Positive Dr. Abdul Quadar Khan Born in 1930 at Bhopal – Moved to Pakistan in 1947 Studied Science Led the Nation’s nuclear research and successfully exploded the bomb Prosecuted under ‘Official secrets Act and put behind the Bars Dr. Abdul Kalam Born in 1930 at Rameshwaram Studied Science Led the Nation’s nuclear research and successfully exploded the bomb Became the President of India Negative? What is the Outcome?: Negative? What is the Outcome? In January 2004, Khan confessed to having been involved in a clandestine international network of nuclear weapons technology proliferation from Pakistan to Libya, Iran and North Korea There is evidence to believe that Khan and his network are one of the worst proliferators of nuclear technology that can be used to develop nuclear weapons. He is credited with helping Muslim countries to develop nuclear weapons.  Vision for the Nation : Vision for the Nation Vision 2020 for Passenger Aircraft National Mission and opportunities Evolution of India vision 2020 Regional Development leads to the best Integrated actions for Development Technology based Societal Grid Ambience In the Nation 2007 Economic Development Transforming India into a developed nation Growth competitive Index Possible Ambience in 2020 The Advantages Of a Positive Attitude : The Advantages Of a Positive Attitude Advantage 1: Advantage 1 A Positive Attitude Triggers Enthusiasm Advantage 2: Advantage 2 A Positive Attitude Enhances Creativity Advantage 3: Advantage 3 A Serendipitous Attitude can Cause Good Things to Happen PowerPoint Presentation: How to Stay POSI + IVE in a TOUGH Work Environment The Environment: The Environment Determinism Theory Negative World View Changing Environment YOU Beware the Bullets! Negative Work Environment Past Experiences Other People’s Behavior Ouch! PowerPoint Presentation: - Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead - No one appreciates your contributions - Too much work . . . not enough help - Deadlines are unrealistic - Longer hours . . . additional work - Budget Constraints - Competition is eating us alive - Poor management / direction - Job insecurity Negative Work Environment PowerPoint Presentation: Other People’s Behavior Bulldozers Snipers Exploders Clams Patronizers Complainers Controllers Backstabbers Walking Wounded Negatives Gossips Brown Nosers Sluffers Whiners PowerPoint Presentation: CHANGE . . . Challenges our paradigms Alters the way we think Makes life more difficult for a while Causes Stress Is an ongoing fact of life Changing Environment “The only person who always likes change is a wet baby” PowerPoint Presentation: Past Experiences Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! Ouch! PowerPoint Presentation: Media Frenzy Negative World View A recent Statistic: Crime down 20% in America reporting up 600% , Look at what you are looking at !!! PowerPoint Presentation: GENETIC : My Grandparents did it to me. (Inherited traits) PSYCHIC : My Parents did it to me. (Upbringing) ENVIRONMENTAL : My Spouse, my Boss, the Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to me. (Surroundings) Determinism Theory Life’s Little Question: “Are some people just born positive thinkers . . . or is it their CHOICE ?” Life’s Little Question Choose the Right Luggage: Choose the Right Luggage Dodge Bullets Be Bulletproof The Problem With Dodging Bullets: You’re going to get hit! The Problem With Dodging Bullets Choice #2 : Choice #2 Wear Bulletproof Armor Bulletproof Armor Comes from : Bulletproof Armor Comes from SELF CHANGE Putting on the Armor: Putting on the Armor Change 3 Things! How to Change Your Attitude: How to Change Your Attitude ATTITUDE ATTITUDE Changes happen personally from the INSIDE OUT! So . . . Accept Responsibility: I am responsible . . . . . . for who I am . . . for what I have . . . for what I do ATTITUDE So . . . Accept Responsibility Step #2 Take Control: Negative world view YOU FROM THE INSIDE . . . OUT! Ownership Values Mission Discipline ATTITUDE Step #2 Take Control How to Change Your Thinking: How to Change Your Thinking THINKING THINKING Changes come from observing logically in every situation Observe Your Thinking: Observe Your Thinking THINKING It sucks to be him. I refuse to let this hook me! This is all very interesting What can I do to defuse this? Tomorrow it will look very different. I’d like to beat the … Manage Your Self-Talk: This is going to be a wonderful day! This is going to be a crappy day! Manage Your Self - Talk If you think you Can, or you think you Can’t… YOU’RE RIGHT ! Henry Ford THINKING How to Change Your Behavior: How to Change Your Behavior BEHAVIOR BEHAVIOR Changes take true assessment, determination & discipline Who is the loser?: Who is the loser? As it went into extra-time, France had started to dominate proceedings It was Zidane's last meaningful contribution to the French cause as with 10 minutes left of extra-time, his professional career ended in shameful circumstances Marco Materazzi falls to the ground after being butted by Zinedine Zidane DID YOU KNOW? Only four men have scored three goals in World Cup final matches – Geoff Hurst (England), Vava (Brazil), Pele (Brazil) and now Zinedine Zidane (France) Indian spinner Harbhajan Singh has been handed an 3-match ban from the Indian Premier League (IPL) after being found guilty of slapping compatriot Shantha Sreesanth. Harbhajan also faced further punishment from the Board of Control for Cricket in India (BCCI), for the incident that took place in Mohali: Indian spinner Harbhajan Singh has been handed an 3-match ban from the Indian Premier League (IPL) after being found guilty of slapping compatriot Shantha Sreesanth. Harbhajan also faced further punishment from the Board of Control for Cricket in India (BCCI), for the incident that took place in Mohali Choose Your Behavior: Choose Your Behavior REACTIVE Response RESPONSIBLE My Response My Choice BEHAVIOR Stimulus Stimulus Add POSI+IVE Behavior: Add POSI + IVE Behavior INFLUENCE YOUR ENVIRONMENT! Sprinkle some “positive” on the negatives Focus on the good of each day Stay out of the “feeding frenzies” Say “please” and “thank you” Practice EMPATHY Evaluate YOUR behavior Never miss an opportunity to complement Spread a SMILE around Replace the BAD HABITS! BEHAVIOR How to Adjust: How to Adjust Your Attitude Adjustment 1: Adjustment 1 Employ the Flipside Technique Adjustment 2: Adjustment 2 Play your Winners Adjustment 3: Adjustment 3 Simplify! Simplify! Adjustment 4: Adjustment 4 Insulate Insulate Adjustment 5: Adjustment 5 Give your Positive Attitude to Others Adjustment 6: Adjustment 6 Look Better to Yourself Adjustment 7 : Adjustment 7 Accept the Physical Connection Adjustment 8: Adjustment 8 Clarify your Mission Choose POSI+IVE Living: Choose POSI + IVE Living PowerPoint Presentation: HAVE A WONDERFULL & A positive Future E N J O Y !!!!!!!!!! PowerPoint Presentation: Any Questions . . .?