Delicate Conversations :
Delicate Conversations Mom or Dad may insist they’re not moving
Initiate the sometimes delicate and often difficult discussion
Best time to evaluate options is before a crisis occurs
Parent can participate in the evaluation and decision-making process in relation to the merits of independent or assisted living
When and How to Broach the Conversation :
When and How to Broach the Conversation Eldercare specialist Stella Henry, R.N., author of The Eldercare Handbook:
Many seniors are unrealistic about their ability to maintain their homes
Prefer to avoid all discussion about the inevitabilities of aging
95% of her clients come to her in crisis situations
Results in a confused elder, disorganized children and a family in chaos
Talk with care and sincerity
Gently suggest a visit to a friend who has made the transition
Have lunch at a nearby facility
Back off but don’t give up in the face of resistance
Call ahead for an appointment with the administrator or social worker
Visit during mealtime or during an activity
Form a Team :
Form a Team Present a united front
Enlist the help of respected physicians and counselors
Professionals can underscore family’s concerns
Help senior envision different scenarios or present the benefits
Who is best to serve as durable power of attorney for critical healthcare decisions?
All’s Well That Ends Well :
All’s Well That Ends Well Once the move is made the elder is usually safer and happier
It takes courage and determination
Children are rewarded when they see a parent flourishing in a new environment
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