logging in or signing up Conflict Resolution for Couples jennrip Download Post to : URL : Related Presentations : Share Add to Flag Embed Email Send to Blogs and Networks Add to Channel Uploaded from authorPOINT lite Insert YouTube videos in PowerPont slides with aS Desktop Copy embed code: Embed: Flash iPad Copy Does not support media & animations WordPress Embed Customize Embed URL: Copy Thumbnail: Copy The presentation is successfully added In Your Favorites. Views: 530 Category: Education License: All Rights Reserved Like it (1) Dislike it (0) Added: July 08, 2010 This Presentation is Public Favorites: 1 Presentation Description No description available. Comments Posting comment... Premium member Presentation Transcript Conflict Resolution : Conflict Resolution Abrielle Conway, M.A. Camden Morgante Anica C. Mulzac What is Conflict Resolution? : What is Conflict Resolution? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sh5t47H_glw&feature=related Where are you now? : Where are you now? Your spouse/significant other makes plans for both of you without running it by you first You feel like you do everything around the house and your spouse ignores your requests for help Your spouse spent a large sum of money without telling you first You and your spouse disagree on how to raise your children Solvable and perpetual problems : Solvable and perpetual problems Perpetual or unsolvable problems Come up repeatedly Began early in the relationship You discuss the problem, but make little or no progress Solvable problems Specific issues that are situational Do not surface repeatedly Have a good chance of being solved Focus on solvable topics for conflict resolution Moving Toward Conflict Resolution : Moving Toward Conflict Resolution Conflict resolution requires 3 things: Increased understanding of your partner Increased closeness/a sense of teamwork Improved self-knowledge/understanding of your motivation Tonight’s Lesson: Evaluating Common Interests & Basic Human Needs : Tonight’s Lesson: Evaluating Common Interests & Basic Human Needs Security Financial and Psychological Well-being Belonging Feeling a bond/emotional connection to each other or others Recognition The need for attention or to feel valued Control Freedom to make decisions Brainstorming : Brainstorming After identifying underlying needs, begin brainstorming ideas for resolution Focus on where you would like to go, not where you’ve come from Consider all ideas without judging them Be as creative as possible while brainstorming Formulate ideas that will benefit both partners Work with your partner to narrow down ideas based on both of your preferences Review : Review Communication is key Learn from how you typically handle disagreements Conflict resolution requires understanding each other, teamwork, and self-awareness Our basic human needs motivate us to take certain positions By identifying human needs and interests, couples can move forward in brainstorming solutions to their problems You do not have the permission to view this presentation. In order to view it, please contact the author of the presentation.