Teenage Abusive Relationships

Teenage Abusive Relationships : 

Teenage Abusive Relationships Physical, Emotional, and Sexual Abuse

A Healthy Relationship : 

A Healthy Relationship Everyone has a right to a safe and healthy relationship—one that is based on mutual honesty, trust, respect and open communication. Remember that a relationship consists of two people; both should always feel like an equal in the relationship and feel free to speak their mind. And it’s not just about making sure you get your say; it’s also about letting your partner know you’re listening.

An Unhealthy Relationship : 

An Unhealthy Relationship Angela is dating Joe, a cute, charming, popular guy in her high school. He's very attentive and calls her several times a day; he wants to know where she is all the time, because he says he couldn't live without her. She's lucky; all her friends tell her so. Even her parents adore him. But nobody knows he's started talking down to her on a regular basis, and nobody knows he's getting more aggressive with each insult. All the while, Angela questions what she did wrong, and what she can do to make it right.

Relationship Abuse : 

Relationship Abuse Warning signs: Extreme jealousy Constant put-downs Telling you what you can and can’t do Possessiveness or controlling behavior Financial control Making false accusations Keeping you from seeing or talking with friends and family

Life as a Teenager : 

Life as a Teenager Recognizing abuse in a relationship can be difficult, especially for teens. There are many types of abuse that teens often believe are not abusive or are normal in a relationship. Even though teen relationships may be different from adult relationships in many ways, teens do experience the same types of physical, sexual, verbal and emotional abuse that adults do.

The Terrifying Truth : 

The Terrifying Truth If trapped in an abusive relationship, 73% of teens said they would turn to a friend for help; but only 33% who have been in or known about an abusive relationship said they have told anyone about it. Nearly 80% of girls who have been physically abused in their intimate relationships continue to date their abuser. Of the women between the ages of 15-19 murdered each year, 30% are killed by their husband or boyfriend.

The Terrifying Truth (cont.) : 

In 100 domestic violence situations, approximately 40 cases involve violence by women against men. More than 1 in 4 teenage girls in a relationship report enduring repeated verbal abuse. Verbal abuse is the most common and the hardest type of abuse to determine. The Terrifying Truth (cont.)

Slide 9: 

The Cycle of Abuse

What is considered abuse? : 

What is considered abuse? Abuse can be verbal, physical, or sexual when concerning an intimate relationship. Verbal Abuse: Name calling, put-downs, insults, blaming, criticizing, accusing, hurtful jokes, controlling, remarks about appearance Physical Abuse: Pinching, punching, biting, throwing objects, spitting, pulling hair, preventing from eating or sleeping, driving fast to intimidate you Sexual: Unwanted touching, withholding sex, forcing sex, sexual name calling, refusing to practice safe sex

Technology’s Impact : 

Technology’s Impact Cell phones are a great way to keep in touch with friends and family. However, they also can play a role in teen dating abuse. Because phone calls, texting and messaging allow you to be in constant communication, cell phones can be a powerful tool for abusers to monitor and control their girlfriends or boyfriends day and night.

But what if I Need Help? : 

But what if I Need Help? Abusive relationships are difficult to overcome, especially if the abuse has been occurring for some time. Realizing that no one deserves to be abused and learning how to take a stand is crucial in overcoming abuse. Friends and family are always willing to help, but it is best to report abuse to a higher authority so you and your abuser are able to get help. National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline at 1.866.331.9474

Can I Stop Being Abusive? : 

Can I Stop Being Abusive? If you are abusing your partner, the first and hardest part of ending the abuse is admitting that it is wrong. It is very important to take responsibility for the problem and get help to end it. Changing abusive behavior is a long and hard process that you cannot do alone. It is extremely important that you get professional help to get through it. Though you may not know it, you rely on your beliefs and attitudes to justify the abuse. With help you can change these beliefs and learn how to treat your partner with respect.

Thanks to… : 

Thanks to… http://www.thesafespace.org/ http://www.loveisnotabuse.com/ http://www.stoprelationshipabuse.org/signs.html http://www.teensagainstabuse.org/index.php