20 Habits for Growth

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The Presentation is all about those habits which let you know the inner aspect of work life & strategy to overcome them.

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THE 20 HABITS THAT : 

THE 20 HABITS THAT HOLD US BACK FROM THE TOP !

1.Winning too much : 

1.Winning too much The need to win at all costs and in all situations – when it matters, when it doesn’t and when it’s totally beside the point

2.Adding too much value : 

2.Adding too much value The overwhelming desire to add our two cents to every discussion

3.Passing judgment : 

3.Passing judgment The need to rate others and impose our standards on them

4.Making destructive comments : 

4.Making destructive comments The needless sarcasms and cutting remarks that we think make us sound sharp and witty

5.Starting with “No”, “But” or “However” : 

5.Starting with “No”, “But” or “However” The over use of these negativity qualifiers which secretly say to everyone, “I am right. You’re wrong No…But

6.Telling the world how smart we are : 

6.Telling the world how smart we are The need to show the people we’re smarter than they think we are

7.Speaking when angry : 

7.Speaking when angry Using emotional volatility as a management tool with or without knowledge

8.Negativity, or “Let me explain why that won’t work” : 

8.Negativity, or “Let me explain why that won’t work” The need to share our negative thoughts even when we weren’t asked

9.Withholding information : 

9.Withholding information The refusal to share information in order to maintain an advantage over others

10.Failing to give proper recognition : 

10.Failing to give proper recognition The inability to praise and reward

11.Claiming credit that we don’t deserve : 

11.Claiming credit that we don’t deserve The most annoying way to overestimate our contribution to any success

12.Clinginging to the past : 

12.Clinginging to the past The need to deflect blame away from ourselves and onto events and people from our past; a subset of blaming everyone else

13.Making excuses : 

13.Making excuses The need to reposition our annoying behavior as a permanent fixture so people excuse us for it

14.Playing favorites : 

14.Playing favorites Failing to see that we are treating someone unfairly

15.Refusing to express regret : 

15.Refusing to express regret The inability to take responsibility for our actions, admit we’re wrong, or recognize how our actions affect others

16.Not listening : 

16.Not listening The most passive – aggressive form of disrespect for colleagues

17.Failing to express gratitude : 

17.Failing to express gratitude Failing to express gratitude is the most basic form of bad manners

18.Punishing the messenger : 

18.Punishing the messenger The misguided need to attack the innocent who are usually only trying to help us

19.Passing the buck : 

19.Passing the buck The need to blame everyone but ourselves

20.An excessive need to be “me” : 

20.An excessive need to be “me” Exalting our faults as virtues simply because they’re who we are