Battered and Beaten :Battered and Beaten The Epitome of Spouse Abuse By Brandon Carbaugh Mr. Vega 2009 English 11-A


Imagine… :Imagine… Coming home from school to see your mother being held down by her throat, beaten and bruised. Hearing her scream of agonizing pain and fear. Wanting to help and save her from the abuser. Fearing the consequences because that abuser is YOUR FATHER. Photo: http://www.firstlightpsych.com


Are you aware? :Are you aware? Around 3 to 4 million women are abused annually. Normally, the heinous crime is committed every 15 seconds. Most often spousal abuse occurs in one’s supposedly safest shelter… home. ("Spouse/Partner Abuse Information.”) Photo: http://sworrall.typepad.com


Abstract :Abstract All the different types of spouse abuse include physical abuse, sexual abuse, and emotional abuse. The abuser experiences and thinks about his actions. On the other hand, the victim fears the actions that are bound to occur from his/her partner. Abuse occurs when one spouse craves power and superiority. The main goal of this project is to raise public awareness of domestic violence, specifically spousal abuse.


What is domestic violence? :What is domestic violence? A form of family violence The leading cause of women’s deaths (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”) Photo: http://www.freewebs.com


What is physical abuse? :What is physical abuse? Kicking Hitting Biting Choking Pushing Assaulting (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”; "Spouse Abuse- Misuse of Power.") Photo: http://www.abc.net.au


What is sexual abuse? :What is sexual abuse? Photo: http://osocio.org The use of sex To Hurt To Degrade To Humiliate To Overpower (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”)


What is emotional abuse? :What is emotional abuse? Fierce intimidating Mean gesturing Loud yelling Aggressive smashing Illegal destroying (property) Emotional threatening (on children) (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”; "Spouse Abuse- Misuse of Power." ) Photo:http://jdabulskyte.blogspot.com/


Why do abuser’s think this way? :Why do abuser’s think this way? Lack of understanding Learned behavior (from a role model) Lack of recognition Alcohol abuse Media portrayals (sports, celebrities) Sexual roles Public misunderstanding (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”)


What is the victim like? :What is the victim like? Follows different lifestyles Feels painfully worthless Has main priority (to keep family together) Thinks today’s society (ignores them) Needs abusive husband (financially) Fears family reaction (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”) Photo: http://www.simplyangel.com/survive.htm


What occurs with the abuser? :What occurs with the abuser? Denies violence Displays possessiveness and jealousy Refuses responsibility Develops sexist attitude (males are dominant) (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”) Photo: http://www.washhumane.org


Why does he do it? :Why does he do it? Experienced violence in childhood household Used force in power maintenance Handled feelings in negative way Anger Frustration Guilt Repressed feelings of depression… Low self-esteem Low self-control (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”) Photo: http://www.communicationartscompany.com


How do men exert power? :How do men exert power? Dominance Humiliation Isolation Threats Intimidation Denial Blame (Davies, et. al.) Photo: http://beginnersguidetoearth.blogspot.com


What is the vicious cycle of violence? :What is the vicious cycle of violence? From abuse To guilt To rationalization and excuses To “normal behavior” To fantasy and planning To a set-up Back to abuse (Davies, et. al.) Photo: http://www.rcmp-grc.gc.ca/cp-pc/spouse-epouse-abu-eng.htm


What is Battered Woman Wyndrome? (BWS)? :What is Battered Woman Wyndrome? (BWS)? Common patterns faced Emotional Interpersonal Behavioral Abusive man murdered (by partner) In self-defense (Piotrowski) Photo: http://www.screenhead.com


What is the most popular domestic violence case? :What is the most popular domestic violence case? O.J. Simpson Accused of killing wife and a waiter Ignored accusations due to fame Acquitted of the charges (never proven) ("FACTBOX: Facts on O.J. Simpson's murder trial, acquittal.”) Photo: http://arjewtino.com


Otis Wilson :Otis Wilson Ex-Chicago Bear Linebacker accused of beating wife $500 fine Court costs Counseling (for 10 weeks to 1 year) ("Ex-Bear Otis Wilson pleads guilty to spouse abuse”) Photo: http://thesebootsaremadeforstalking.com/?p=460


How are domestic abusers charged? :How are domestic abusers charged? Were O.J. and Otis not punished enough due to being celebrities? Actually, domestic violence abusers are usually not given harsh punishments. Domestic violence case sentences usually end with a fine and counseling. ("Ex-Bear Otis Wilson pleads guilty to spouse abuse”; "FACTBOX: Facts on O.J. Simpson's murder trial, acquittal.”)


What are the warning signs? :What are the warning signs? Co-workers, friends, and family should show concern if they witness Frequent injuries/absences Consistent fear (of husband) Personality changes Lacking assertiveness Insufficient living resources Sorrowful depression Low self-esteem (Davies, et. al.)


How can you take a stand? :How can you take a stand? One can prevent this by Punishing abusive partners (by law) Enforcing prevention effort Changing negative attitudes (toward victims) Making available shelters (for victims) Creating stronger, more effective laws Understanding the problem Sharing important information (“Spouse/Partner Abuse Information”)


What should you do in case of an emergency? :What should you do in case of an emergency? Call these domestic abuse hotlines: 1-800-799-SAFE(7233) 1-800-787-3224 (Davies, et. al.) Photo: http://media.photobucket.com/


How can America take a stand? :How can America take a stand? Make the problem public Provide flyers, banners, pamphlets, and public announcements When problem is public, victims feel more comfortable to tell someone ("Spouse/Partner Abuse Information.”) Photo: http://farm4.static.flickr.com


Thank You!!! :Thank You!!! Now it is your turn to take this information and make a change. Our world should work together in harmony to end the violence towards our loved ones. There are millions of people that need your help. Please take a stand.


Works Cited :Works Cited Davies, Pat, et. al. "Domestic Violence and Abuse." Understand, Prevent & Resolve Life's Challenges. 2001. HelpGuide.org. 2 May 2009 . "Ex-Bear Otis Wilson pleads guilty to spouse abuse. (former All-Pro linebacker of the Chicago Bears)." Jet 17 Oct. 1994. Student Resource Center-Silver. 2 May 2009 . "FACTBOX: Facts on O.J. Simpson's murder trial, acquittal." Reuters.com 17 Sept. 2007. Thomson Reuter's. 8 May 2009 . Piotrowski, Nancy A. "Battered Woman Syndrome." 1 Jan. 2003. ELibrary. South Western High School, Hanover. 5 May 2009 . "Spouse Abuse- Misuse of Power." All About Life Challenges. 2002. All About. 2 May 2009 . "Spouse/Partner Abuse Information." Nccafv. 7 Mar. 2009. National Council on Child Abuse and Family Violence. 2 May 2009 .