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Chapter Twelve: Interpersonal Relationships: Friendship, Love, Family, and Workplace This multimedia product and its contents are protected under copyright law. The following are prohibited by law: any public performance or display, including transmission of any image over a network; preparation of any derivative work, including the extraction, in whole or in part, of any images; any rental, lease, or lending of the program.

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The easiest kind of relationship is with ten thousand people, the hardest is with one. Joan Baez

Friendship: 

Friendship Interpersonal Relationship Between Two People Mutually Productive Microsoft Image

Friendship (continued): 

Friendship (continued) Mutual Positive Regard Closer Friends More Interdependent Matter of Choice Microsoft Image

Friendship Types: 

Friendship Types Friendships of Reciprocity are Ideal Types Friendships of Receptivity Friendships of Association Microsoft Image

Needs Friendships Serve: 

Needs Friendships Serve Utility Affirmation Ego-Support Stimulation Security Microsoft Image

Friendship and Communication: 

Friendship and Communication Depth of Communication Increases Breadth of Communication Increases Dynamic Tension Around Revealing Information about Self Regressions May Pull Friendship Back

Types of Friendships: 

Types of Friendships Initial Contact and Acquaintanceship Casual Friendship Close and Intimate Friendship Microsoft Image

Friendship, Culture, and Gender: 

Friendship, Culture, and Gender Friendships Closer in Collectivist Cultures Women and Men Have Different Types of Friendships Microsoft Image

Love Types: 

Love Types Eros - Beauty and Sexuality Ludus - Entertainment and Excitement Storge - Peaceful and Slow

Love Types (continued): 

Love Types (continued) Pragma - Practical and Traditional Mania - Elation and Depression Agape - Compassionate and Selfless

Love : 

Love Is a Combination of the Six Types Changes Across Stages Different for Different Personality Types

Love in Stages : 

Love in Stages 1st - Eros,Mania and Ludis 2nd - Storge 3rd - Pragma Microsoft Image

Love and Communication : 

Love and Communication Exaggerate Beloved’s Virtues/Minimize Faults Share Emotions and Experiences Share Secrets Create Personal Idioms

Love and Communication (continued): 

Love and Communication (continued) Engage in Significant Self-disclosure Nonverbally Communicate Love More Eye Contact Longer Periods of Silence Become More Aware of Physical Self Eliminate Taboo Adaptors More and More Intimate Touch

Love, Culture, and Gender: 

Love, Culture, and Gender Asian vs. European Individualist vs. Collectivist Cultures Differences Between Women and Men Great in the US

Family Defined: 

Family Defined Definition is Complex and Changing Primary Relationship (Two Principal Parties) Family Denotes Broader Constellation Microsoft Image

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Characteristics of Families: 

Characteristics of Families Defined Roles Recognition of Responsibilities Shared History and Future Shared Living Space Established Rules Microsoft Image

Family Types - Primary Relationships: 

Family Types - Primary Relationships Traditionals Independents Separates Microsoft Image

Family and Communication: 

Family and Communication The Equality Pattern The Balanced Split Pattern The Unbalanced Split Pattern The Monopoly Pattern

Workplace Relationships: 

Workplace Relationships Romantic Relationships Often Frowned Upon Often Entail Problems Would Not Arise in Other Contexts Microsoft Image

Workplace Relationships: 

Workplace Relationships Romantic Relationships Mentoring Relationships Microsoft Image

Workplace Relationships: 

Workplace Relationships Romantic Relationships Mentoring Relationships Networking Relationships Microsoft Image

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