Do All You Can To Save That Marriage

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Separation and divorce exact a price that many, many people say in retrospect is just too costly. In fact, do whatever it takes to save your marriage now. So don’t wait. Take action.

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DO ALL YOU CAN TO SAVE THAT MARRIAGE The Marriage Institution is under great attack and the numbers of those either separating or divorcing is on the increase. The effects of separation and divorce are enormous and particularly on the children. Do all that you can to save that marriage Kigume Karuri Tuesday, October 31, 2017 1

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Marriage is wonderful because it brings two completely different people together to create a new relationship. It comes with personal and social benefits, and the ability to satisfy one’s emotional, social and physical needs. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 2

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Though married life has its ups and downs, living alone is not so easy either. All of us need someone with whom to share our feelings, dreams, and frustrations. We also need someone to support us through the hard times. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 3

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Marriage enables you to bring up your kids in an ideal environment. This is one of the main reasons why people prefer to save marriage rather than pursue divorce and separation . Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 4

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Children require the love and attention of both parents. If they miss out on the love of one parent, they will be more prone to psychological and social problems in the future. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 5

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If you have decided to save your marriage, then you must work with your spouse to create practical solutions for resolving your marital conflict. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 6

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The most important thing is to: 1. Find the root cause of your marriage problems. 2. Communicate with your spouse. Tell them how you feel and what you think about the situation. 3. Remember to give him/her a chance to speak. Listen. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 7

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4. Love and intimacy are vital for saving a marriage and restoring the relationship. 5. Work on healing any rift and create deeper intimacy with your spouse and you will be pleasantly surprised how easy it becomes to solve other marriage problems . 6. Seek skills required to repair the emotional damage caused by your marriage problems. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 8

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Separation and divorce exact a price that many, many people say in retrospect is just too costly. In fact, do whatever it takes to save your marriage now. So don’t wait. Take action. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 9

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T he personal cost to you right now emotionally, physically and financially is high as you try to survive the conflict. But it will be a whole lot more expensive later on if you and your spouse call it quits. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 10

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Once the honey moon phase passes, things go downhill, eventually leading to chronic relationship problems and a struggle to save the marriage. B itterness turns into battles when tolerance levels are exceeded . Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 11

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When this happens, many couples put divorce or separation on the table as an option. But before making this decision, consider the consequences. And then decide to do whatever it takes or whatever it costs to save your marriage. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 12

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Repairing emotional damage is very necessary. Not only will this save the marriage, but it will enable you to completely recover from the mistakes you have made. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 13

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Apologizing can save a marriage. A sincere apology from the heart such as saying; “I’m sorry, what I did was wrong and stupid. Please forgive me” can go along way in healing your marriage. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 14

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If you want to have a better marriage then be honest with your spouse; share your fears and insecurities with them. This is a great way to improve understanding, closeness, and intimacy in your marriage . Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 15

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Listen to your spouse and again I say listen. Listening to your spouse is very important when you are trying to save a marriage. Just because you don’t agree with their point of view doesn’t mean they’re wrong. To save your marriage, be an active listener. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 16

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Be open and let your spouse know that you take responsibility for your mistakes . Find a common ground. Nothing destroys a happy marriage faster than focusing on your differences . To save a marriage you should choose to focus on what the two of you have in common. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 17

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Move to the next level and avoid repeating the same mistakes over and over again. Show your spouse that you are trying to change and they will appreciate it. Don’t make promises to quiet your spouse. Follow through on what you say you will do . Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 18

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Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 19 Deal with disagreements productively. If you can see that endless disagreements are driving you and your spouse apart and creating a wall of separation, find a way to call a truce so that you can break through and be intimate again.

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Finally You can save your marriage. You have to quickly learn to adjust in all marital situations. We come into the marriage institution as two people who have never been together before, have different back grounds and have a life to live together until death separates them. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 20

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Allow your spouse to be real and stand with them in real life challenges. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 21

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Go an extra kilometre because of your spouse. You can forfeit all because of him/her. Your spouse would not forget the sacrifices you have had because of him/her. Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 22

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DO ALL YOU CAN TO SAVE THAT MARRIAGE. IT WILL PAY DIVIDENDS IN THE END Tuesday, October 31, 2017 Kigume Karuri 23

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