Techniques Used :
Techniques Used 1. Tracking 2. Reframing 3. Softening 4. Heightening 5. Emphatic Conjecture
EFT Cycle Diagram :
EFT Cycle Diagram Larry and Joyce then
Have good days then the
Cycle starts again. Larry wants to be first
With Linda , but when
He feels he isn’t first
He accuses her of
Cheating. Joyce feels that she
Is paying for his other
Wife’s affairs, however
She tries to assure
Larry she places him
first. Larry wants to be first but
when he feels that Linda is placing
everyone else first he retreats, but is
defensive then goes silent. Joyce in a effort to
soothe Larry, pursues
him, then walks away
feeling hurt. Cycle Name: Trust vs. Mistrust Joyce & Larry DANCE
Process Diagram :
Process Diagram Step 5 Step 6 Step 7 Larry, you feel that
You are being attacked
And when you are
Attacked you become Defended. Is that right? Joyce it sounds like
You are constantly
On guard and feel the
Need to defend yourself
Is that right? I want you to trust me
Larry and I need you
To be nice to me.
Process Language of Couple :
Process Language of Couple Larry Joyce Larry Joyce I am hear
To let her say
What she needs
To say. I need you
To be nice
To me Larry. I want to be an
Equal with her
And I want her
To not treat me
Like a child. I can’t live like This anymore, I want a
separation!
Mapping The Session :
Mapping The Session Restructuring
Interactions Stage 7
Reframe Reframe
Stage 6 Stage 5 Reflecting Joining