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Edit Comment Close By: cabantug_vicky (32 month(s) ago) please send this to cabantug_vicky@yahoo.com.ph Saving..... Post Reply Close Saving..... Edit Comment Close Premium member Presentation Transcript FRIENDSHIP: FRIENDSHIP Intentions for today’s talk: Intentions for today’s talk How do we move from acquaintance to friendship? What makes friendship work? Not work? What contributes to long-term friendship? Quotes: Quotes “Behind every stranger is a friend” “A friend is a gift to give yourself” (Robert Louis Stevenson) “The greatest good you can do for another is not to share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own” (Disraeli) “I like myself more when I am with you”Slide4: “Jessica is my best friend because she likes me” (Emma, 6 years old) “A friend in need is a friend indeed” “Friendship is a mutual belief in each others goodness” (Cicero)What we do know : What we do know Friendship has been highly valued throughout history Friendships are important throughout our life span - from kindergarten on Family can be friends and friends can become family Decline in the number of friends that people haveMove from acquaintance to f’ship: Move from acquaintance to f’ship Acquaintance No assumptions Formal courtesies Publicly structured meetings Explicit agreements Low risk disclosure High personal privacy Friendship Increased assumptions, expectations Growing trust, respect and understanding Increased emotional exchange and personal disclosure Increase in private meetings and shared feelingsAcquaintance to friendship: Acquaintance to friendship “The sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional , psychic or intellectual, forms a bridge between the sharers which can be the basis for understanding much of what is not shared between them, and lessens the threat of their difference.” (Audre Lorde) Assume positive intentionWhat makes friendship work?: What makes friendship work? “Friendship with oneself is all important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.” (Eleanor Roosevelt) Be positive – the human brain responds positively to a smiling face. “The secret to friendship is being a good listener” More on friendship working: More on friendship working “The only way to have a friend is to be one.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson) “Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession while friendship is never anything but sharing.” (Elie Wiesel) Friendships develop between people whose paths cross (work, classes, gym, clubs…) More about f’ship working: More about f’ship working Shared interests, things in common (e.g. similar sense of humour, or political views etc.) Reciprocated disclosure moves into intimacy. knowing how to respond to someone’s disclosure will build intimacy Giving, not receiving – being present Practical help (money, car etc) less important Ben Franklin Effect: Ben Franklin Effect “He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged.” Not work?: Not work? Friendships can and do end. “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow” (Alice Walker) “You can’t shake hands with a clenched fist” (Indira Gandhi) No time…More about f’ship not working: More about f’ship not working “If you judge people you have no time to love them.” (Mother Teresa) Move away from friends who don’t support our current view of ourselves (“social support”) There can be no f’ship without forgiveness. F’ships in the workplace can suffer.What contributes to long-term friendship?: What contributes to long-term friendship? Friend who is there when we ‘really need’ them Even more so - “social identity support”. Same for men and women. “The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own” (Benjamin Disraeli) Final Word: Final Word “Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend’s success” (Oscar Wilde) You do not have the permission to view this presentation. In order to view it, please contact the author of the presentation.
Friendship Berenger Download Post to : URL : Related Presentations : Share Add to Flag Embed Email Send to Blogs and Networks Add to Channel Uploaded from authorPOINTLite Insert YouTube videos in PowerPont slides with aS Desktop Copy embed code: (To copy code, click on the text box) Embed: URL: Thumbnail: WordPress Embed Customize Embed The presentation is successfully added In Your Favorites. Views: 1645 Category: Entertainment License: All Rights Reserved Like it (1) Dislike it (0) Added: December 18, 2007 This Presentation is Public Favorites: 3 Presentation Description No description available. Comments Posting comment... By: karthijeni (15 month(s) ago) hi. it's real presentation Saving..... Post Reply Close Saving..... Edit Comment Close By: ismaya (31 month(s) ago) hi, it's a very nice prensentation... Saving..... Post Reply Close Saving..... Edit Comment Close By: cabantug_vicky (32 month(s) ago) please send this to cabantug_vicky@yahoo.com.ph Saving..... Post Reply Close Saving..... Edit Comment Close Premium member Presentation Transcript FRIENDSHIP: FRIENDSHIP Intentions for today’s talk: Intentions for today’s talk How do we move from acquaintance to friendship? What makes friendship work? Not work? What contributes to long-term friendship? Quotes: Quotes “Behind every stranger is a friend” “A friend is a gift to give yourself” (Robert Louis Stevenson) “The greatest good you can do for another is not to share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own” (Disraeli) “I like myself more when I am with you”Slide4: “Jessica is my best friend because she likes me” (Emma, 6 years old) “A friend in need is a friend indeed” “Friendship is a mutual belief in each others goodness” (Cicero)What we do know : What we do know Friendship has been highly valued throughout history Friendships are important throughout our life span - from kindergarten on Family can be friends and friends can become family Decline in the number of friends that people haveMove from acquaintance to f’ship: Move from acquaintance to f’ship Acquaintance No assumptions Formal courtesies Publicly structured meetings Explicit agreements Low risk disclosure High personal privacy Friendship Increased assumptions, expectations Growing trust, respect and understanding Increased emotional exchange and personal disclosure Increase in private meetings and shared feelingsAcquaintance to friendship: Acquaintance to friendship “The sharing of joy, whether physical, emotional , psychic or intellectual, forms a bridge between the sharers which can be the basis for understanding much of what is not shared between them, and lessens the threat of their difference.” (Audre Lorde) Assume positive intentionWhat makes friendship work?: What makes friendship work? “Friendship with oneself is all important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.” (Eleanor Roosevelt) Be positive – the human brain responds positively to a smiling face. “The secret to friendship is being a good listener” More on friendship working: More on friendship working “The only way to have a friend is to be one.” (Ralph Waldo Emerson) “Friendship marks a life even more deeply than love. Love risks degenerating into obsession while friendship is never anything but sharing.” (Elie Wiesel) Friendships develop between people whose paths cross (work, classes, gym, clubs…) More about f’ship working: More about f’ship working Shared interests, things in common (e.g. similar sense of humour, or political views etc.) Reciprocated disclosure moves into intimacy. knowing how to respond to someone’s disclosure will build intimacy Giving, not receiving – being present Practical help (money, car etc) less important Ben Franklin Effect: Ben Franklin Effect “He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another than he whom you yourself have obliged.” Not work?: Not work? Friendships can and do end. “No person is your friend who demands your silence, or denies your right to grow” (Alice Walker) “You can’t shake hands with a clenched fist” (Indira Gandhi) No time…More about f’ship not working: More about f’ship not working “If you judge people you have no time to love them.” (Mother Teresa) Move away from friends who don’t support our current view of ourselves (“social support”) There can be no f’ship without forgiveness. F’ships in the workplace can suffer.What contributes to long-term friendship?: What contributes to long-term friendship? Friend who is there when we ‘really need’ them Even more so - “social identity support”. Same for men and women. “The greatest good you can do for another is not just share your riches, but to reveal to him, his own” (Benjamin Disraeli) Final Word: Final Word “Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend’s success” (Oscar Wilde)