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How to Talk to Your Kids About Christ: How to Talk to Your Kids About Christ
Slide2: Deuteronomy 6:6-8 'These words that I am giving you today are to be in your heart. Repeat them to your children. Talk about them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.'
Ephesians 6:4 'And fathers, don’t stir up anger in your children, but bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.'
Slide3: Acts 2:39 Â 'For the promise is for you and for your children, and for all who are far off, as many as the Lord our God will call.'
Acts 16:31 'So they said, 'Believe on the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.'
Children Can Be Saved: Children Can Be Saved They can understand the plan of salvation
The Gospel is simple
They can remember their responsibilities at short stop and learn the names of the state capitals
They can trust Christ to save them
Luke 18:17 'I assure you: Whoever does not welcome the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.' . andgt;
Some Do’s: Some Do’s Pray for your child’s understanding
The Holy Spirit can make the light come on
Make sure your child knows the difference between baptism and salvation
Or between joining the church andamp; salvation
Wait until your child shows he understands the commitment involved before leading him in a prayer to receive Jesus.
Go see the preacher together . andgt;
Some Don’ts: Some Don’ts Don’t ask questions with yes or no answers
Have them answer questions in their own words
'What does it mean to become a Christian?'
Don’t ask leading questions
You love Jesus, don’t you Timmy?
Don’t use figures of speech
Don't rush a child – each one comes to Christ as he or she is ready andgt;
Some Don’ts: Some Don’ts Don't use scare tactics or use fear as a motive
Don’t use peer pressure or try to get a child to follow a group
Don’t give rewards for a response
Don’t tell children that they are saved, even after they respond . andgt;
When children aren’t quite ready: When children aren’t quite ready Don’t belittle their interest or make them feel dumb for bringing up the subject
Don’t say, 'You’re not ready for that; we’ll talk about this when you are ready.'
Instead:
Answer their present questions
Clarify their understanding
Compliment their interest . andgt;
Key Areas of Understanding: Key Areas of Understanding The Seriousness of Sin
Sometimes it is hard to see our own children as lost sinners
Don’t feel protective if your child is under conviction
John 16:8-9 'When He [the Holy Spirit] comes, He will convict the world about sin, righteousness, and judgment: about sin, because they do not believe in Me' andgt;
Key Areas of Understanding: Key Areas of Understanding The Cross - Make sure your child understands the cross
1st Corinthians 2:2 'For I determined to know nothing among you except Jesus Christ and Him crucified.'
Romans 5:6 'When we were utterly helpless, Christ came at just the right time and died for us sinners.' (New Living Translation)
Colossians 1:21-22 'You were his enemies, separated from him by your evil thoughts and actions, yet now he has brought you back as his friends. He has done this through his death' (New Living Translation) andgt;
Key Areas of Understanding: Key Areas of Understanding Salvation is a Free Gift
It is not when I stop being bad and start being good
Titus 3:5 'He saved us–not because we were good enough to be saved but because of his kindness and pity' (Living Bible) andgt;
Key Areas of Understanding: Key Areas of Understanding Repentance
Repentance is a change of attitude
It is turning to God from having it my way
Acts 3:19 'Now it's time to change your ways! Turn to face God so he can wipe away your sins, pour out showers of blessing to refresh you' (The Message) andgt;
Key Areas of Understanding: Key Areas of Understanding Faith
Faith is trusting Jesus Christ to do things for me I cannot do for myself
I cannot make myself right with God
I cannot earn my own salvation
Ephesians 2:8 'Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It's God's gift from start to finish!' (The Message)
Romans 5:1 'We have been made right in God's sight by faith' (New Living Translation)
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When a Person is Saved: When a Person is Saved A person is saved when he commits all that he knows about himself to all that he knows about God.
A child won’t yet know everything about himself
Children don’t know about their careers or spouses yet
A child will not know everything about God
Children don’t yet understand the doctrine of the virgin birth or be able to explain the doctrine of the trinity
When our understanding of God or ourselves increases, we increase our commitment
This is called Christian growth . .
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